Ok, I am 15, in 9th grade and I am going to have sex for the first time, but, not with a Bf, not, going to get into that, i will make another question for that, but, i know if anyone ever found out my life would be screwed for forever, but i am still going to do it, i just have to know exactly what to do, he really wants to have sex and so do i, i just don't know what u actually do, so, a little help here, and do guys prefer shaved or not?
2007-02-10 12:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by Marissa S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok let me put it to you this way. My first time was when I was 15. I had decided I was ready and I wanted to know how you had sex. I found a guy who was as curius as me. He had a girl friend and I knew that. Well we did it and the next day at school all his friends were asking me if I would do it with them. I had picked him because I actually liked him. I saw him a few years after we got out of high school and found out her had married that girl. They where expecting their first child. He told me he regreted not waiting like she did. She still thinks that she is is first. I didn't regret it at the time, but I do feel bad now.
There is a big difference between being ready such as urges and curiosity. And being ready emotionally.
I think it is best to wait for someone who cares for you. Then even if you are young and the relationshipdoesn't last it is still special.
2007-02-10 12:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by bowenthedog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HECK?!?!?!?!
You're 15...you're not ready. You may think that you are ready, but you AREN'T!!! For one thing..if you don't know what to do..that's another sign that you aren't ready. That's what..9th grade? WAY TO SOON!!! Actually, anything before marriage is too soon, but if your not going to wait for marriage at least wait till you're like 18 and in love...this guy's not even your bf...what the heck? You guys aren't in love and your way to young. WAIT!!
You will regret it if you don't wait for at least a few more years....trust me...I haven't had first hand experience, but it is a proven fact!!
GO TO CHURCH!!!
2007-02-10 12:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by em<3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't do it, by the way you ask your too young, and the fact your not dating him, you are being used, you are likely to get hurt and the fact that "if anyone found out my life would be screwed forever" is a major sign this is the wrong guy, The fact that you ask the question shows you have a brain, use it.
2007-02-10 12:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
baby girl dont make that mistake.1st thing he's telling you that oh ur pretty and things such as and thats only to get into ur pants and the only reason why ur probably ready is because he makes u feel so good, but dont make that mistake, and not only that, the condom might break if ur gonna use any and u might get pregnant and or get an STD from this guy cause u dont know if he has anything and he's not gonna tell you that he has something. so trust me dont throw your life away cause u think ur ready. im 20 years old and i wish ive waited, and if u do it he might tell all his friend and then ur gonna feel low. dont do it.
2007-02-10 12:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont di it. look at all the risks. if something bad happens then u have to deal with it for the rest of your life. u can have 10 minutes of pleasure but u are risking it all to have a terrible life after words. u thik u are ready trust me your not. after u do it you'll regret it. wait for someone special not a one nightstand. smarten up. good luck
2007-02-10 12:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate your question. First of all not only will you be screwed by your parents, but you're more at risk of having a child? Heck you're still a child yourself. Think about it, masturbating is a lot more smarter and safe.
2007-02-10 12:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont sleep with this guy. You make think your ready but trust me you are more than likely to regreat it. I sleep with my bf when I was 16 and i still regreat it. If you do it I think you should do it with your boyfriend cause otherwise youll lose him and surely you dont want that.
2007-02-10 12:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Kiara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15......9th grade......hmmmm..... I wonder..... is this a good idea? *ell no you idiot.
-get a life
-go to church
-get friends
-read the bible
-and quit being a *lut
oh and about the shaved or not.... just leave it alone and dont do it.... smart one
2007-02-10 12:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Choconilla♥ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
damn
2007-02-10 12:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Learning To Fly (again) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋