My boyfriend and i had this agreement that we would find someoe to join us, and he went ahead without me with one of our friends girlfriends saying that he did it because he thought that was the doorway into us all getting together. Yet i dont think so, because he already told me do not go to any gay clubs with him, do not chat on the internet, and now has been hanging out with her and her boyfriend for the last fours days ( which is when it happened) This guy doesnt even deserve me, I have two brand new cars, a huge bank account, my own place, and i was down for a three some, and i am really pretty, guys ask me out like once a week, SO WHAT the f is his problem, and how can i get over it that he is willing to still hang out with her. I feel like I am having a problem because he should be the one working for my trust and now i am ending up telling him to come over here and he wont. What can i tell him to make him understand what he's doing
2007-02-10 11:59:00 · 6 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know for a fact this guy will be calling me monday morning crying about how fing sorry he is... what do i say to him... ??
2007-02-10 11:59:39 · update #1
And what have we learned from all of this,.......no gays, no three-sums, save it for Marriage, no party scene's,...unless you like freaks with S.T.D.s ......Who know,s where they have had there lips,...........YUK !
2007-02-10 12:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with him.....say "Yes, u r sorry" "A sorry excuse for a man that is."
What are u sweatin this guy for? Sounds like u have the world at your fingertips and have alot to offer someone who would appreciate it. I will tell u why u r struggling with it......because your ego has been completely crushed girl. Thats the only logical reason why u would even consider sweatin this loser.
Move on!!! Let him have his bimbo. You can do better.
Go out tonight and find another fella to take your mind off things.
See if he will appreciate you.
BTW.....he used that "because he thought that was the doorway into us all getting together" as an excuse. He wanted her, he is just too lame to admit it.
What an ***.
Good luck
2007-02-10 12:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes are tricky situations and should never be entered upon without both people agreeing on partners. If he violated your trust by doing this, chances are that he doesn't respect you, and that is never a good thing. If you have a lot going for you...don't talk to him...I am sure that there are plenty of other men out there for you to date, who will treat you like a lady and that will be satisfied with you on an intimate level...This is your life and you need to live it on your terms...it might be hard but stand your ground.
2007-02-10 12:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by ca0324 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is NOT worth your time, money or torment. You really need to move on and far away from HIM. And do not date again until you understand why you would accommodate a man who needs more than you in his bed and so be able to choose better next time. I was young and blind too and I married my nightmare. Trust me, run do not walk away NOW.
I did and I found a very nice man and we have been married 25 yrs this June.
2007-02-10 12:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by MEAcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so attached to someone that is abusive and trying to talk you into something that you know that in your heart is wrong. Forget about the guy and look for a honorable guy. Don't let yourself get dupt... into something that you are going to regret for the rest of your life
2007-02-10 12:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by betrue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It basically signifies that they both "needed" to split and that there have been no longer going to be any troublesome emotions with both get mutually. transferring on is way less painful for both. this can be a perfect split, regrettably they don't look to be continually this impressive.
2016-12-04 00:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by schiavone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋