ok i am going out with this guy, and he just broke up withme last week, then asked me back out the next day, then the day after that he broke up with me again, and 20 minutes later asked me back out, and i keep saying yes..because i really like him ,..we have been together ever since Saturday... and now he just keeps joking around about breaking up and it really bothers me, and i have told him that it does bother me, and he apologizes about it, but then he does it again..i really do like him, but i just dont know how to let him know that it does really hurt me when he jokes around about our relationship.
2007-02-10 11:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by wendyerin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i see what yall are sayin...but he tells me that he really does love me, and that he really doesnt want to loose me..and to a point i believe him, but to a point i think that he wants to be with someone else
2007-02-10 12:03:41 · update #1
Why don't you tell him that because of his confusion as to wether or not he wants to be with you, that you should just be friends for now. Then see what happens later. That way you guys can really get to know each other without any pressure. If later on he makes a pass at you (after you really know his head is straight) and you are still interested in him, take the relationship to the next step.
2007-02-10 11:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you might have said something but it didnt get through.
1) say somthing again along the lines of " im sorry that i have to mention this but i want you to know that i like you a lot and you mean so much to me but im not in this relationship to be a joke if you want to be together then im here but if your going to think that you breaking up with me and asking me out again is the most hilarious thing then you need to find another girl to date that finds it funny. its not that i dont care about you its that i cant take you laughing about it."
2) if he doesnt take that well or he doesnt get the message then find something funny about him to make fun of. thats the more hilarious way but the more serious way is getting all the strength and break up with him. either he will crawl back and mean every word of his apology or he wont crawl and you will know that your relationship was just a funny joke.
GOOD LUCK!
niko.
2007-02-10 19:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he is doing it because he isn't sure of what he wants. He may really like you and not want to get hurt so he's afraid to tell the truth to anyone. Maybe you should talk to him about it and ask him why he does those things. Well, I hope everything works out!
2007-02-10 19:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by picture_perfect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he is playing games with you.
if you are having sex maybe he is getting back with you when nothing better is around and breaking up with you when he has a shot at something new.
you will either put up with it or let go of the jerk.
if someone really cares for you they do not play those kind of games with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
be cool...
2007-02-10 19:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with you and it makes you look the fool. He is definitely an immature selfish kid that needs to grow up. Lose the fool.
2007-02-10 19:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he liked u... a few minutes later he stopped. he got bored. now hes only asking u back out cuz he feels bad for u. just get over it. srry
2007-02-10 19:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by angie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probabaly just like the reaction he gets out of you... you got stand up to him and or tell him how you really feel about him doing this to you... be firm.
2007-02-10 19:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him..then maybe later he will realise that u are really serious.
2007-02-10 19:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Vampir Karmin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
screw him. if he cant be serious about your feeling and wont respect you. then screw that
2007-02-10 19:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by TIFFUhhNEE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋