He seems to be in a world of his own and doesn't interact with anyone. Any Ideas please?
2007-02-10 11:33:10 · 25 answers · asked by oompalah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
hi i know how you feel my daughter is 3 and she has just finished her observations which told us she is significantly delayed my daughter nw has to have special nappies due to this and a special pram i would talk to the healthvisitor before the problems really get started if you would like any more information im more than happy to talk to you there are alot of professionals out their to help it just takes time just ask the healthvisitor to help please e-mail me if you want any more info at winfarrah@yahoo.co.uk
2007-02-11 12:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by winfarrah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...first of all the not being able to go to the toilet isn't a problem. HE's not ready to be potty trained...so what? He can't feed himself...is that becuase his parents do it for him? I know a few mothers who have done that simply because they didn't want the mess kids create learning how to feed themselves...so the kid get's lazy...that's not a problem with the child that's a problem with the parents. Ok he doesn't communicate...as in how? If he doesn't speak that's not a major issue at 2 either. Some kids don't feel the need to orate at 2. Some kids start talking at two and never shut up...I have a 21 year old daughter who started talking at a little over a year and I'm waiting for SILENCE some day.
You say he doesn't "interact" with anyone...how so? It could be Autisim...it could be that he simply prefers his own company and is a loner. So far I see no major problems with your grandson...But, a trip to the doctor might be more informative.
2007-02-12 05:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him checked out for autism or Asperger's Syndrome. He is not hitting his developmental milestones and what you have listed are some of the key signs of autism especially the non interaction with people around him. The fact that he cannot go potty is subjective, not all kids are potty trained until they are about 3 especially boys.
Autism affects 1 in 150 children with most of the occurrences amongst boys.
Get him to a specialist as soon as possible, the earlier you start to get the diagnosis and the therapies going, the better chance he has of eventually interacting with others and possibly going to school with all his peers without being placed in specialized classes.
2007-02-10 23:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by thequeenreigns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys take a longer time to communicate, and a lot of children aren't potty-trained at 2.5. That being said, if he does seem to be "in a world of his own" or somewhat distant to what is going on, you may want him to go to the doctors. Most two and a half year olds can feed themselves, so that one is a little unusual. It may be that he has just developed at a different pace... or he could have something like autism. Either way, it is best to know for sure.
2007-02-10 21:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest talking with his doctor about getting testing for Autism or some other disorder. It is rare that a 2 yr old does not feed himself or communicate, usually they are very chatty! At 2, some kids do not use the toilet, sometimes a child is almost four before they are toilet trained. I still suggeest seeking medical help.
2007-02-10 19:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Popsicle_1989 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your grandsons problems. I'm not a doctor but it sounds like he does have autism. My 4 yr-old nephew has it and their symptoms do sound the same. You should get him to a doctor and don't take any rubbish from them autism, with the right treatment won't be the end of the world for him. My nephew is beautiful, bright and so clever and completly obsessed with thomas the tank engine. Apparently a lot of autistic kids like that cos of the bright colours and big clear facial expressions. Anyway, like i said i'm not a doctor but it does sound like your grandson is really similar to my nephew. Get him checked out that way you'll know for sure and your mind will be eased.
Good luck, i hope it turns out to be nothing serious. Keep your chin up it'l all be ok one way or another.
2007-02-10 23:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to be critical, but are his parents too over protective and do everything for him, coz kids will never do things for themselves if they can get mum or dad to do it instead!! Believe me i know!!
My 2 year olod was like this at 18 months...so i just left him to feed himself...10 mins later he was so hungry, that he had no choice but to pick up the fork and feed himself!!
That said though, are you sure he doesnt have autism? The only reason i suggest this is coz u said he is in a world of his own...or does he not have friends to play with? Does his mum get down on the floor and play with him much?
Kids need to learn to play, just like they need to learn how to speak, go to the toilet and feed themselves...it may just be the fact that he is lazy coz his parents are doing everything for him..but if you are worried...them suggest he goes to see a doctor.
2007-02-11 15:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have been getting the normal health checks at the different growing stages from his health vistor (I can't remember what all the different ages are for accessment)
If your concerned about is development, contact your GP and talk to him, along with your health vistor.
It is still earlier for toliet training yet, and as for everything else try not to worry until you speak to a doctor. A childs development is alot to do with his surroundings and how much stimulation he has been getting at home.
If he was bottle feed for a long period of time this can hold up speech development, as spoon feeding helps with the muscle development is the jaw etc.
2007-02-10 19:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by pebbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every child develops differently but this does sound strange. Has he not had his 2 year check with the health visitor? If not i'd urge his parents to organise this. I wouldn't worry about the toilet thing though! I think the average is about 50 words by 2 but certainly by 2.5 they should start joining words together and saying phrases.
2007-02-12 11:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the Dr and get him tested for autism. My cousin is autistic and he is the same way. He would talk to his hands but noone could understand what he was saying it was jibberish. If he does have autism then there are specialized people who can help him, it will take a while and eventually he will start talking a little more and doing things that he couldn't do before. If he gets the help dont' expect him to cange right away because it will not happen.
2007-02-10 19:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by lem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not want to worry you but i have a two year old son and he can feed himself and communicate quite well, he can not use the toilet yet though, it may be that he is just a slow learner but i would advise getting some advice from your health visitor or dr as he does seem to be a little behind others of his age, good luck
2007-02-11 17:13:00 · answer #11 · answered by tracy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋