None of the guys at my school like me. It really upsets me, too. Cuz all I do is be myself. Dress the way i like, talk the way I like, everything the way I like. I mean, I'm not ugly, I dress fine, I talk fine, I love everyone to death. I barely even have an enemy, like everyone else does. I'm always apoligizing, and being sweet. I have alot of friends. I don't talk alot, but then I talk too much. I never get asked to a dance... I never get asked out. Guys are FINALLY taller than me.. and i dunno.. no guys like me.. I don't know why... =/
2007-02-10 11:29:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's sounds like you are too down on yourself. You need to not let this get to you and your time will come. Wake up with a smile on your face every day. Remember - the day will give you the face you give it.
If you're happy others will mirror that. If you're sad others will mirror that. Cheer up!
2007-02-10 11:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way. just keep your head up chicka. you will find someone a guy does just not realize how awesome you really are and no one is taking time to get to know you. I would say if you have a job right now and you hang out a lot with friends and you see someone you like bring up a conversation that the guy would like video games or a action movie and see some of his interests like that. you will find someone and I never got asked to a dance i asked guys even thou I was really scared and i was rejected a couple of times. but, no worries just because you have not had a guy ask you does not mean they are not thinking about it. i hope i help. keep smiling and being the sweet person you are now.
2007-02-10 19:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by Hope I help you today. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault. You said yourself you aren't ugly and you sound like you have a good personality. Guys might not notice just yet, and your guy might not know you just yet. Eventually you will find someone who loves you the way you are and in the mean time, don't put yourself down. You are fine the way you are and there is nothing wrong with you. It might take you some time to relise it, but you will find out that you aren't that bad. Have faith in yourself, be true to your heart, and good luck!!
2007-02-10 19:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, i know exactly wt u mean. i'm 13, and i'm facing ur probs 2. nobody likes me, except 4 my friends. i also be myself. i basically do everything u do! i have alot of friends, and the exact same guy probs. i have a crush right now, and i also am scared about this. maybe it because we act 2 normal.
but then again, that only 1 thing: all those guys at our schools.....they're all assholes. most guys we like either turn out gay, cheated on their girls, or just being plain SOBs.
a lot of stuff happens. right now i'm the smartest girl at my school. no matter how much we try 2 change, no guys get attracted 2 us.
in time, my good friend, in time ur guy friend could start likin u, and god nos--possibly even ask u out!!
but just b patient. i'm doin that, and lookee! me crush is startin 2 like me, and i'm kind of chubby. stay calm. relax. in time u b an attractive girl.....to non assholes, er, female dogs(if u no wt i mean). good luck!!
2007-02-10 19:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Dandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have that problem. I look in the mirror every morning and I say to myself. "You are alone and it bugs me." And then I say, "But that's only cuz the guys around here aren't for me and they would most likely make me miserable anyways, and somewhere there's someone for me and we're going to be a hundred times happier than everyone else is because it's going to be real. So I'm glad you're alone, because it means that down the line you're going to get someone awesome." Then I'm myself and I like myself so i have fun.
Ok, so maybe not everyone talks to themselves, but that's my spin on it.
2007-02-10 19:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey, nothing is wrong with you. If you are pretty, funny, caring, friendly, and tall, the poor guys are probably AFRAID to approach you...afraid you'll turn 'em down. Guys like to act all tough but their egos are really, really sensitive. They fear rejection (and so do women before you guys bash me or something)...I would suggest you finding yourself a little hottie that you are interested in and YOU ask him out! Good luck!
2007-02-10 19:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Stealth_1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe they do and just didnt have the guts to ask u out. stop being so hard on yourself im sure some out there loves you to death too!! look if they dont ask u out y dont u try finding someone urself well good luck
2007-02-10 19:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know if every guy at school doesn't like you. Maybe some guys do, their just shy. Anyway, don't worry about it, you'll find the right guy sometime.
2007-02-10 19:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you!!!
in this day in age, guys are afraid of rejection.
maybe they think you would say NO
ASK THEM OUT!!!
KEEP ASKING SOME guys until they say yes.
ask the average joe out!!
FUNNY THING IS..........ONCE YOU ARE GOING OUT WITH A GUY, GUYS NOTICE YOU!!
Espeically if you go out with AVERAGE JOE-- the guys get it into their heads, that they can have you too!!!!
like, wow, she's so cool.
ask out average joe and make his day or ask out a short guy!!!
i love short guys!!! they are so sweet!
I had to ask my husband out-- for first date, cuz he was so shy!!!
guys are shy and afraid of rejection.
you sound too cute and guys must think you will say no.
so ask them out!!! silly get over yourself!
2007-02-10 19:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess they just like someone else. Maybe they're just shy. Or maybe they did like you but not any more. Well, whatever the answer is, I don't think you stink.
2007-02-10 19:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by Computer_Wiz148 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋