so my sort of x, (he said we went out but all it was was he liked me and i liked him back) sent me this card, it said be my valentine, i love u. i dont like him and he is a nerd!!! how do i tell hi no and not be mean. i relly want to be friends!! HELP ME!!
2007-02-10 11:07:21 · 15 answers · asked by soccerchic_1618 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just say 'im extremely flattered by the valentine, but i dont feel that way about you. your a great freind to me and i think we'd be better as freinds'
you dont have to say you like him just because you dont want him to feel bad!
2007-02-10 11:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by carly m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you really like the card and you really think that he´s a special guy... That´s why you´re interested in him as a friend... BUT nothing more... You can´t imagine yourselves as nothing more than friends cause it´s just what you are looking for.
2007-02-10 11:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him that you dont feel the same way but you still want to be friends. But if he feels that you made him sad then he might not want to be your friend and then you have to give him time.
2007-02-10 11:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u want to be friends but not girlfriend/boyfriend then give him 5 or 10 dollars.
2007-02-10 11:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him every body else thinks he's a nerd and that you want to be just friends.
2007-02-10 11:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by honeyfairy5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 02:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by atalanta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do as you said just tell him nicely not rudely that sometimes people feel different about the same things....tell him he's cute and explain to him that ya'll can just be friends
2007-02-10 11:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by crazy/smart guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't feel the same way, and that being friends would be just as important.
2007-02-10 11:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take the card and walk straight up to him and give it back with it all messed up and then smack him in the face. i think he will get the picture after that.
2007-02-10 11:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by djb0036 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you feel closeer to him as friands. you already tried and didn't succeed why go thru it all again.
or tell him you already have a valentines date
2007-02-10 11:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋