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A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf not in the US . During all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hi and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He said I was too weird. I'm ignoring him like he wanted, but sometimes he looks.

2007-02-10 11:00:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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he's using you to fill his void coz his gf is not here, but he feels guilty so he makes himself feel better by making it your problem not his, he sets it up in his head that way and belives his own virgen of events.
just go out and meet someone detatched and there for the taking and let him see your no fool.
you don't want to become the other woman (when it's conveniant for him)

honey your not a welcome mat

2007-02-10 11:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0 0

Did you come on to strong?, I mean that in the best of ways. The guy is a player and wanted you to be his muse. When you came on like there actually going to be emotion involved he got scared and acted like he cared for his girl again(which is crap because he would not be hitting on you if he cared about her). Girl you need to ignore him and not feel bad about it. Speak to him when it is called for. Be professional, don't drop your guard because the moment you do you will again be his fool. Find someone out of the office sweetie because romances with co workers end up being very uncomfortable. Dude is a dog and eventually you will be a the joke of the locker room(so to speak) if you don't back away now. Make him the fool, be nice but cool like nothing ever happened. BE STRONG GIRL, GOOD LUCK!!

2007-02-10 19:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all he loves all of the attention you are giving him. Of course he would say to sleep with him to help get "over" him...what does he have to lose? He can have his cake and eat it too. I don't want to hurt your feelings but if he were interested in you and really cared about you and your feelings he would tell you that he does like you but he has a girlfriend and can't be anything but a friend. His way of not dealing with you is to tell you that you are too weird. You are not weird - you are just too nice of a girl. You need to move on because you deserve better than that.

2007-02-10 19:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Nina C 2 · 0 0

Well if he has a gf why mess with him. And whatever you told him you shouldn't have. But hey just treat him liek a co-worker and don't worry. ALl he was doing is telling you what you wanted to hear so he could know how far he could get with you. It's just a game boys play, like I said boys not men>Real men liek me don't play games. SO just ignore him and move on, wnat to chat more just IM me anytime.

2007-02-10 19:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Damn !!

2007-02-10 19:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by DesiGirl 3 · 0 0

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