I'm 25 and I've only ever had one boyfriend; but I have tons of guys that call and want to talk and hang out with me regularly...some treat me better than I've seen them treat their own girlfriends. It's flattering and fun to have guy friends, to be, as some have said, "a cool girl I can be myself around," but I'm lonely at the end of the day. What am I doing wrong? (Don't think I'm gonna sleep with anyone to change my luck, either!!!)
2007-02-10 10:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by lipsndimples81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quite acting like one of the guys and start acting like the fine *** girl everyone wants.
2007-02-10 11:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by vukcevic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm interesting Q. You must send them signals. Some of us guys are shy and all we really neen is a VERY OBVIOUS CLUE. So don't despair. If you're a good friend then the fact that you're a good lover makes you complete. Most guys believe the right girl will show up someday, what we are oblivious to is in what package will she appear.
2007-02-10 11:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you like a guy, you have to ask him how he feels about you and if he would be interested in a relationship, if he is go for it. If not you were just wondering and don't want this to interfear with your relationship. You have to get some gutts because life is too short to live with regret and no you do not have to have sex unless you want to, make sure you are clear on the subject and just go and enjoy your life. Take care Heather
2007-02-10 10:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself hun- In time you will meet the right one and then it will be grand- enjoy all the guy friends and soak up the laughs --it is good for you --relax and enjoy your young life and don't be in a big hurry to get married because then the work starts--lol-- Enjoy-- Mom of many
2007-02-10 11:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by ebsscsc55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...u gotta start hanging with single guyz more cuz those with gf's rn't gonna ask u out (usually) no matter how much they lyk u...don be just a loving best friend..also show that yr a hot single woman who is looking..but don't make it sound desperate...hm... be more sugar n spice..more flirty..let yr inner challenigng n attractive womanly self shine!! n don worry..they liking u as thier best friend is a very very good sign ;) good luck sweetie
2007-02-10 11:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by kitXcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your problem... if you dont put out, you don't get them. I applaud you for your actions. Guys run after sexual desire. Just stay true to yourself because when you finally do find someone who wants to be with you... that will be the only reason. Now if you just want guys to chase you just flaunt your sexuality... I'm sure they will start to stir but be careful.
2007-02-10 10:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just TOO accessible. Men are genetically predisposed to hunt a bit (imo).
2007-02-10 10:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Gal 35 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex!
That way you don't have to sleep with anyone.
Seriously now!
At 25 the guys around your age are going to have a sexual outlet that they will drift toward at night.
Pick a guy and let him do what comes natural and you won't be alone at night any more.
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2007-02-10 10:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it from a man, be a little hard to get and just a little distant. Don't always try to be a friend, but be yourself.
2007-02-10 10:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋