WHY?!!!!Guys, what's going on?!?
So basically, this guy I know has basically been dropping all these not so subtle hints about how we should go out and hang out and stuff like that. He flirts with me a lot too and says stuff like 'you make me laugh more than anyone' 'you brighten my day' 'it'd be weird if I saw that movie alone or with guys' 'you look good everyday' 'I would go out with you'. Yet, even though he catches my eye in the hallways, and talks to his friends about me a few times but never talks to me in school - maybe because I never approach him first. Also, during every convo I have with him, brings up some ex-gf or something like that - somehow, we always end up talking about some girl (previous or present) in his life for a few minutes and then the fliration starts up again and he says stuff like "I wish other girls were as cool as you". Is he really interested or is he just being a psychopant?
2007-02-10 10:22:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it sounds as if he likes you alot, he just doesnt know exactly how to ask you out. I think you should try to approach him in the hallways and see what happens.
2007-02-10 10:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by kyah 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If I had to guess, I'd say he's interested.
He's probably bringing up ex-girlfriends so that you know he's not a loser and has had girlfriends before.
Next time he suggests that it'd be weird to see that movie alone, suggest the two of you go together. A LOT of guys like a woman who's self-confident and steps up to the plate.
Orion
2007-02-10 18:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Orion 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
of course he's interested he's just tryin to make u jealous so that u ask him out cuz maybe he's scared to do it first. Do u really like him? If so then give him a chance. U will feel better after this is all over.
2007-02-10 18:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Amber♥ 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you want to see how he is go out with him on a lunch date. But if you are not comfortable with him at all then don't go out with him. You need to tell him to back off because this situations is making you feel very uncomfortable. And tell him flat out their is no future between the both of you. Good Luck..
2007-02-10 18:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he's a player using old school pick up lines.flirt with him a little,and then pull back. Show him you've got the power.He'll come around and stop th B/S
2007-02-10 18:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by ecclectic1962 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He wants to put you on his list of "the ones that didn't get away". He's playing you and doing a sorry job of it from what you've wrote about him. Watch out for him.
2007-02-10 18:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by raah 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first do you like him i mean like him like him
if you do tell him to stop talking about all these other girls
then depending what he says next you can eather
1)kiss him and say some thing like i just wanted to know what it would be like to kiss you
or
2) or my favorite tell him what you told us and after that say something like im tired of waiting for you
hay and if he dosnt like you than tell him to shut up about those other girls and all of that flirting and other crap
2007-02-10 18:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by catluvr331 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, he likes you, but next time when the convo leans towards other girls, say, " Can we talk about something else *besides* your old girlfriends..........say lets talk about me why dont we"
2007-02-10 18:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by yo mama 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
boys are wierd. maybe he just wants to look cool infront of his mates by not chasing you, maybe hes winding you up, maybe hes shy. i dont know. boys often send out mixed signals. to me it sounds like he likes you but is just a bit embarrased. hope this helped. xxx
2007-02-10 18:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by tammie x 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
write a book
2007-02-10 18:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋