I am 16 you know that ok my ex bf is 16 too, ok my momma knows i am pregnant and all she isn't goin to help me she said that i created this prob, yea she is right i did but i can't do it own my own i need help i do i wanna go to school and get my education to make a good life for my son i need some type of info, i don't want to give my son up for adoption so that is out the question!!!! can you people help me out!!!!
Luv: Jaden and Me Yasmine!!!!
2007-02-10 10:22:11 · 11 answers · asked by Proud Mommy 2 Cameron♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Hey. I had my son when I was 16 yrs old. I was a sophmore in HS and nobody wanted to help me either...So I had my son and bounced around schools til I finally got my GED. I recommend getting your diploma, much better Idea.I went to medical assisting school, worked all the time but things have slowed down more. I had joined a group for teen parents.If you wanna Im me at cherokee_pimpstress and let me know what state your in I can find out if there is a group in your area. They really taught me a lot and helped me balance everything.that was 5 years ago and I have a healthy son, hes happy and well situated.
2007-02-10 11:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by cherokee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many places that can help you. You can go to a local health unit and ask if they can refer you to a babysitting service that will help you while you are at school. There are some that are government funded since you are so young and really have limited money. How are you paying for healthcare? Are you on medicaid and did you apply for WIC? That can help you with formula. Look up daycare centers and ask them if they have anything that could help you. If you can not find something, then you could see about getting your GED. Also you could look up family planning centers as well, I know they have alot of information to help. Take care of yourself and don't let your mother make you feel bad. She is upset, but when she sees that baby, things will change. Tell her that you know that you have a huge responsiblity on your hands.. but make sure she knows that you want to finish school. I am sure that she will understand. Good luck.
2007-02-10 18:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by luvthbaby2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if you don't want to don't put the baby up for adoption don't if you do and you really don't want to you will always regret it. I had got pregnant at 16 my mom had my have a abortion i hate her for it i still miss the baby that i never had i had my first son at 18 my mom knew i wouldn't do it so i was out no my own there is places to help you your mom will see that you are doing it and that you will be a good mom and probably come around if you want ta talk email me katie_kat_1981@yahoo.com
2007-02-11 01:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by katie_kat_1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you are way too young to have the responsibility of a child I feel that it would be unfair to you and your childhood and your new baby and there childhood, What is wrong with adoption, now adays they have many different set ups for adoption were you still could have rights in the child's life and you could make the best out of yours now. I strongly feel its too hard to finish high school and make something of yourself, you would want your child to look up to you and be a good provider for them.
2007-02-10 20:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, does the father want to stay with you to raise the baby? I know it might seem like the worst idea in the world to give your baby up for adoption, but you have to ask yourself these questions: when all my friends are going out for a movie on Friday, do I want to stay home with my baby, or do I have enough time/money/mental strength to raise a baby on my own, and lastly so you want to be a mom? I give you my prayers and I believe that you have the strength and courage to be a wonderful mother.
2007-02-10 18:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by TatumPiddlePeepeepants 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put the kid up for adoption. You are not ready to be a mother and the boy is not ready to be a father. If you care for your child and what what is best, do not keep it. Put is up for adoption so that a responsible parent can raise the child.
2007-02-10 18:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by eric l 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give your mom time she has had a very nasty shock. you are only 16 but you are going to have to make tough decissions on your own now. Hop this helps. Good luck.
2007-02-10 18:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by lisa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can look for teen help....in montreal we have a place called elizabeth house to help out teenage pregnancies,,i hope that you can find the help that you need,,every city has a place for this and if you get social assistance they can help you too.is you do the research you will find what you need,,,i wish you all of the best
2007-02-10 18:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by bannantynegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to get on medicaid and wic!!! Get some sort of daycare help. I live in Idaho and it is iccp
Good luck
2007-02-10 23:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your school councilor they ca help you may even contact the local dhs some one can lead you in the right direction
2007-02-12 15:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Aflac girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋