I need help before i brake one of there hearts, who should i choose?

Question

Who should i choose?

I have two wonderfull friends ,they re' both single.They both like me . Mike the black guy is sensative, a great dancer and likes to read poetry in bed and loves to chat about health and fitness. when i am with him i feel warm safe comfortable and secure and happy but when i am with derick he makes me feel like a new totally diffrent person Derick he likes to talk about all the fascinating things he has done and all the places he has gone.derick likes to cook Itallian cusines and he likes t go rock climbing and is very out doors type of guy

here is a pick of them they are my best friends

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Answer 1

they're already a couple, sweetie.

NEITHER. they're your friends. the other guy will get jealous. why aren't you happy with just being friends? can't you date the same way you already are but without the drama of a relationship. or is it you want sex? if thats the case.. then i have doubts about this "friendship" you speak of.

are you honestly and 100% sure you're willing to risk two friends? cause no matter which you choose..you'll lose both friends.

Answer 2

If you are so worried about breaking one of there hearts why not just not pick either one of them and remain friends with the both of them and choose someone else for a boyfriend.

From the pics it is obvious which one you really want to be with so why ask people that you don't really know which one you should choose. If you must pick between the 2 of them go with your heart.

Good Luck

Answer 3

Set down sum rules 4 em. Say to them u know they like u and u will go out with em each once, and whoeva is the best person and the most courteous u will go out with.
(It is quite a laugh to see them compete against each other for guy or girl so tape it to show them how they act in competition.)
Mind u I think that mike would be ur best choice to go out with.
If he is sensitive he will be able to think clearly alot of the time and
if he is a good dancer, well my mate told me the myth is that means they are YAHOO! under the sheets. LOL!

Answer 4

Not an easy question. They both seem like great guys. Good luck making your decision. Do you have to pick just one now? Maybe give it some more time...things might sort themselves out.

Answer 5

Didn't you just ask this question a couple of days ago. because I answered it the last time . if they both like you, see both of them and choose which one you want to be with. but its up to you. no one can choose which one you should go out with. it has to be your decision. good luck.

Answer 6

well i think that u should pick
only u no witch on u like better
not reandom ppl off the web

just fallow ur heart

and if u cant pick 1 or the other

dont pick ether

cuz if u pick 1
than think u like the other 1
they both will get hurt

then u'll be out of 2 friends

Answer 7

Man idk id half to say thats a really hard pick i dont think that you should really make anybody choose but you your the only one that knows how you feel about them its like a car you like two cars but you always like one or the other better so you half to decide who you like better which one makes you happy go with your heart dont let anybody decide for you
elizabeth

Answer 8

You write about both of them as being great guys, so I was hoping that the pictures would help, but both guys are good looking too, so that makes the decision harder.

I guess you are really stuck.

(Are they gay in that picture?)

Answer 9

if both asked you on a date the one that you think you would have a better time with

also make sure you want to spend alot of time with them

Answer 10

Oo, that's a toughie. Hard to pick one without hurting the other. Who is always on your mind when you are out with either of them?