well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?
2007-02-10 09:53:50 · 10 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she really does like you, but maybe her friends had a little influence on her to say no...if she in fact really said no...)maybe they were jealous?) I'd go directly to her and get her answer from her, not her friends. Good luck...
2007-02-10 09:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you close before you asked her out? She could have said she'd think about it because she was shy or she didnt want to hurt your feelings. SO she went and talked to her friends about it first. I dont know why she is looking at you so much.
Its possible that she does like you, and needed, for some dumb reason to get her freinds' approval first and they didnt like the match and told you she said no. Or she feels bad because you are good friends and she cares about you and doesnt want to cause you pain.
I honestly think you would have to talk to her about it to know for sure, not even as a why dont you like me sort of thing, but just as friends.
Good Luck!
2007-02-10 18:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by sassy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, some people don't miss a good thing until it is gone. Some people like to be chased. If you are up to playing cat and mouse then, feel free to play the silly game that it sounds like she is playing. I say, ask her again if she says no then keep your head up and move on.
2007-02-10 18:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Unsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was too shy to tell you then because she thot you would laugh at her or sumthin. She probably does like you. If you want to talk to her, make sure that you talk to her somewhere where no one can hear you guys and she isn't nervous or anything. Ex: over the phone, email, IM.
2007-02-10 18:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would half to say she likes you and she doesnt wnat to like you because maybe she had a bad relationship or something just show her that you care and you can bbe there for her my guess is she wants you but she just doesnt really want you yet show her you care and im pretty sure you will get her goodluck
2007-02-10 17:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by flashes_girl2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like she doesnt like you and she is a little uncomfotable around you. (sorry ='/ )
or it could possibly be that she regrets saying now.
just ask her about it.
say "hey like i know you said you didnt want to go out with me, but do you even like me? or do you just want to be friends?"
try it!
good luck!
-Cami<3
2007-02-10 17:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give her too much attention,ignore her a little,she'll come around.
2007-02-10 17:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by ecclectic1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her one more time, don't be shy.
If she hesitates, say thanks, and you'll see her around, and leave! Be a man!
Girls (women) know what they want, and what they don't.
You need to find the girl that's really into you.
2007-02-10 17:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes you.
2007-02-10 17:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone,she has issues
2007-02-10 17:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by chinadoll071512004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋