when i say ill, i mean really ill. she might make it, she might not. odds aren't so good though. i'm 15 and my sister is 18 (nearly)
it's pretty early, so i haven't told anyone but one friend, my best friend. my head of year was talking to me about it in her office and was like i've been informing your friends on the situtation so that they can check if you're ok and she's told them near all!! i'm really annoyed even though she was looking out for me but a lot of those people aren't my friends and now the whole school is feeling sorry for me....is she actually allowed to do that if she is concerned for me or what?
2007-02-10 09:32:37 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
I think it was odd and yes, out of place, for her to discuss your family's person matters.
Does she normally express "concern" by telling people when students' parents are divorcing or when a parent has lost a job or when some other unfortunate event happens? It sounds more like gossip than anything else.
Let your parents know what happened and then let them take any action they consider appropriate.
2007-02-10 09:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry about your sister. I really know how your are feeling, someone in my company found out I was pregnant and told everyone before I was ready to, before it was safe to, and no that's I've miscarried, I have so much resentment towards them for making me have to tell everyone " no, actually we lost the baby". It hurts...
No, it wasn't right for your teacher to have done that. People act really funny ways when it comes to tragedy. Even if her intensions were good, it's still hurtful. If I were you, I'd stay after class, and simply say to her, not meanly " We're are trying to keep this a family matter and I'd appreciate if you didn't make any more annoucements". That should stop her and make you feel like you have a little bit more control over the situation.
Don't let it bother you, you have no control over what people do.
I wish your strength. I image this is going to be very hard, but I can see you are a very brave girl.
2007-02-10 09:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by APV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was wrong of your teacher to do this.
Your teacher took a narrow view of the topic and did not consider all of the factors before running her mouth.
You should tell your parents. They should then consider calling the Principal.
Some people try to help - but some people also like to be the first person to tell (news or) gossip. The person who told may have been more interested in having something to tell everyone.
I'm 55. Been married 20 years. My wife and her family (her parents, 2 brothers, 1 sister) and her 2 kids (1 son and 1 daughter) - all like to tell everything they know. If one person in the group knows something - they tell it to everyone in the group. Every time a group of 2 or more get together, they discuss all the latest family gossip.
This drives me crazy. If the son tells me something - it stays with just me. Later, I'll be asked by his Mom (my wife) or his sister - did I know that?
Me: What difference does it make?
Them: Why didn't you tell me if you knew?
Me: IF I KNEW, and I did not tell you - it was because he did not tell me to tell you what he had said. If he had wanted you to know, he would have told you.
2007-02-10 10:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by John Hightower 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say it was none of her business to tell other students about anything in your personal life. She shoud be reprimanded.
2007-02-10 09:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was concerned for you sweetie
2007-02-10 09:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋