ok so im being stalked by this boy .....he follows me everywhere , cant stop looking at me..but i have just put my eyes on this other guy ,but the problem is i only see him 1time in the week ...and sincerely i see no chances to hook up with him.on the other hand im starting to realize my stalker and i are very alike and we seen to have good chemistry, but i dont feel that atracted to him in a physical way......what do u think i should do?stalker or stranger or stay alone ....which is the option i obviously dont wanna choose
PS.please no dumb answers.thanks
2007-02-10 09:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by damoon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wont hurt to be nice to him.
You guys could turn out to be real good friends for life.
Boy friends will come and go.
But true friends last a long time.
On the other hand if this boy does becomes too strange and turns into a problem.
You can always get a restraining order against him.
But I don't think it will come to that, after all you are the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.
You need to accept this as a compliment.
Good Luck and Have Fun.
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2007-02-10 09:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is not all about sexual attraction. Maybe you should give stalker guy a chance and if he freaks you out too much dump him, but at the same time get to know this other guy and see what he is like. He might not be a person you really want to be with.
2007-02-10 09:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Kinka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK just give the stalker a chance and if its just doesn't work try the stranger and if that doesn't work just be alone 4 a while and see what happens!!
2007-02-10 09:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by AMANDA S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate to him that you are not physically attracted to him but he is cool. Introduce him to your friends (male and female). Tell your female friends to give him attention and your male friends to act protective of you. If he thinks that there is a threat he may back off. This is of course if you are not leading him to believe that this attraction is mutual. Refrain from one-on-one encounters, limit conversations to a few minutes and nothing of a personal nature. Eventually, he will get the point and you will be protecting yourself in the meantime. What ever you chose to do, Good Luck!
2007-02-10 09:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Unsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-07 00:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. he is a stranger. But if you are willing to give him a chance why don't you. Maybe your feeling for him might change. And if they don't then it is time for you to look the other way. Good Luck to you.
2007-02-10 09:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him! if you don't feel like you have chemistry, than don't get with him. don't settle for anyone who likes you! Stay alone
2007-02-10 09:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be friends first or just see if he really REALLY LIKES YOU!!! then you can ask him out
2007-02-10 09:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Karate Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have a crush on u.
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2007-02-10 09:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tickle his pickle and everything will be alright
2007-02-10 09:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kwijibo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋