What will you call a girl who tells she loves them to 4-5 guys at the same time and often use L word for sex?..I found this out and I am one of the men. incidentally she is my 12 year long friend. Should I ask her if she really have any feelings for me?. or should I just break up?
2007-02-10 09:23:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was a man he'd be called a stud.
Since it's woman she's obviously a slut. (In school they used to call her the POPULAR girl).
If she's seeing 5 men what makes you think she wants to marry YOU?
If you can't stand the competition, move on
2007-02-10 09:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sarge1572 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is just a little excessive. I would say your friend of 12years is in need of some psychological counseling. You have to search your soul and your heart. And come up with an answer as to what is the next best step. Good luck and God bless****
2007-02-10 17:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also dated 3 men at the same time, BUT all 3 men knew this, it was NEVER mistaken for love, none of the relationships were TERMINAL and all were safe, caring and respectful.
I think that you should take the friendship into consideration and speak to her. Something is wrong if she is being dishonest and if she is trying to make each man believe that she is being exclusive with him and that she loves him. Or worse, if she believes that she does love all of these men.
I don't mean to imply that you should continue dating her, of course, only that you might want to have some sort of conversation around this. Any feelings she may have for you could probably not be trusted at this point. She is either not telling the truth or doesn't know it for herself.
2007-02-10 17:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant keep your feelins detached you need to get out of this so called relationship. it doesnt sound healthy or morally correct
2007-02-10 17:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by mechanicalanimal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be friends with her and just "friends"....Have some respect for yourself and cut off everything else. She has got issues that you can't help her with...
2007-02-10 18:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by michael H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should send her to therapy, she is a fool , and she hasn't gone for her deep feelings, those which are going to explode in your face if you get closer to her.
Stay back
2007-02-10 17:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by monis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋