No girl has ever been attracted to me.?

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I think I look okay. I play drums and bass guitar, i'm a swimmer and I swim every day, I am in good shape.. So i'm pretty confident in myself as a person. I have two college degrees and a great job with good pay.. in fact, the only one flaw that I think I do have is baldness.

Is this just proof that baldness really does matter?

I don't know what BO means like a poster said. Also, it is all shaved off. Theres pictures, see? :p

I don't have any friends to ask anything. Thats why i'm here.

Someone inquired to if i'm "into myself".. I don't really know.. I worry a lot about things such as this.. but I don't know if i'm into myself.

I have a myspace. at /cenax

And I didn't say I was perfect :P

Fishing for compliments might be close.. but its more.. fishing for thoughts or advice.

Also, I do shower every day and try to keep everything looking good.

Someone asked about how I act around women.. im not sure exactly.. but I don't see many women either. When I was in college there were no women in any class ive ever been in, and no women where I work (well, there are some in office complex's there).

I see some girls at the Y where I swim, sometimes.

I try to be nice and fair. I try never to lie, but most of the time i'm taken advantage of, such as being robbed or other.

Does a body spray or cologne help so much? I use degree deoderent and it seems to have a good scent to it.

Answer 1

have you considered being gay? men are less concerned about superficial things like hair as long as you have a big #&@! and a nice @$$.

Answer 2

Well it doesn't really sound like you're doing much to meet women in the first place, we don't just crawl out of the woodwork. Go to a neighborhood bar--a hole in the wall type (I give this answer a lot, but it's a good place to start). Granted the bar scene can get old, and sometimes downright discouraging, but you discover a lot about human nature and the opposite sex there.

Being bald isn't the issue. And I'm sure many girls/women have been attracted to you but you were oblivious to it. They also may not have brought the issue to your attention because you seemed oblivious or uninterested in them.

Answer 3

I've had the same problem (except I'm a girl and i do not suffer from baldness). It might be your personality. Ask yourself these questions: Do i treat women right? Am i nice? Do i take showers regularly? If you answered no to any one of these questions, then i can see why you don't get girls. Just try to work on how you are with women. Don't be too shy, but don't be rude and just try to get in their pants - that's just downright wrong! Hope i helped! OH... and try to put on some nice-smelling cologne, dress nice (not formally, just nice), laugh at all her jokes (and yes even the dumb ones), but don't laugh to hard (because then she'll get onto what your doing), smile, make eye contact (don't keep looking at her mouth or chest (if you know what i mean), don't touch her inappropriately, DON'T burp or fart in front of her! Also... don't be mean to other people around her, show her that your confident, don't ever put yourself down in front of her, and don't ever talk about how hot some other woman is in front of her (that would be the biggest mistake of your life! LOL) that's about it... for now! LOL. hope you find someone special!

Answer 4

Not at all, baldness is not a factor on less those girls out there are just looking for perfection.
Maybe you are coming out to strong and overly secure if you know what I mean. That can turn a girl away. Girls like a guy that is relax, smile a lot. Kind and gentle.Easy to talk to but some what childish. Not a news man. Take a moment and see where you fit in. Good Luck!
ps. a sexy soft body spray for men can help.

Answer 5

I know I personally have the option of going bald or letting my hair grow back, but in your situation I believe it's 1 of 2 things. Even if you believe you're confident it doesn't sound like it and women tend to smell that from a mile away. Some women aren't attracted to guys who are balding, if you're trying to keep whatever is left on the sides, shave it off, guy! I noticed a difference in the way women were treating me, when I first shaved my head too(wanted to be like mike). You need to double up on your confidence, other wise they smell weakness before they get to know who you are. Don't scare them away.

Answer 6

I think that you may simply be 'shy' ... around single women, that is. My husband had only one 'girlfriend' before he and I started to 'go together' when he was 39 years old ... he had lots of 'female friends' but they were ONLY friends to him, even though when he introduced me as his 'future wife' many of them looked like they wanted to KILL ME for 'winning him' ... and he's BALD too, NATURALLY, not 'shaved' ... so if you want to start 'dating' you should probably simply start asking girls if they'd go out with you ... even if you ask 'just as a friend' at first, because my husband and I know that we were 'best friends' before we ever 'got together' and that is why we are such a 'happy married couple now' ... ten years on Valentine's Day.

Answer 7

Your confident, but you may be lacking in confidence around women. There are enough women that have no problem with baldness. Pay attention to how you act around them, you might be doing something to throw them off that you didn't realize before. Are you well groomed? Shower everyday? These are things that you should take into account. You'll find someone eventually.

Answer 8

I'm sure there have been plenty of girls attracted to you, you just don't know it. Lot's of girls are shy and want the guy to make the first move, so make it! Also make sure that you are not giving the impression that you are taken, uninterested, or too good for someone. When you have the chance to start a conversation, start one, I think you'll be surprised.

Answer 9

Sounds like you're doing everything right. These days, every other guy is bald, so that should not be an issue. Ms Right is out there.

Answer 10

Baldness isn't helping but it has nothing to do with your problem. You have a very common problem. You don't have that sex appeal, or charisma, or pheramones. Something is missing. Seek professional help. It's not your looks, other than being bald, you look a lot like me. I have to beat the women away. My wife tells me it's because I "exude" sex. Beats me, good luck.

Answer 11

Nothing wrong with being bald ..that's not it,
The best way to meet people is through friends.... so start asking your friends..." hey!...do you know some one single like myself that we can double with some time??"
Other than that ...just give it some time, it happens when you least expect it.