I am in a store & I see a girl I wan't to meet but I don't know what to say when I get to her. I need some help. Please.
2007-02-10 09:10:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I ask the girl out and she says yes where do you think is the best place to go? And what is a good conversation starter?
2007-02-10 09:21:16 · update #1
Always start with HI - Just start talking. Something will come out of your mouth.
Since you are 14, I would suggest getting some ice cream so you can talk.
Make her laugh...........
2007-02-18 04:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats because I am also 14! Ok. Lets say the girl is looking at books. You walk up next to her and start to browse. Once she picks up a books start a conversation. If you have read the book comment on the book, if you haven't, wonder out loud if it is any good. If it starts a conversation introduce yourself. But be careful who you talk to in a store.
2007-02-10 17:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Brittany :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First relax, then walk up to her and say hi.
Then try to come up with a conversation like if she is wearing a band shirt, tell her you like their music too (only if you've actually heard their music. ) or if she's wearing a basket ball shirt, tell her you like to play too.
If she appears to be talking, ASK questions.Girls like that.
Example: what school she goes too? Where does she play basketball (see this shows you were paying attention to her shirt). Keep the conversation going.
Also compliment her. like if she is wearing a green dress, tell her that you think she looks cute in that color.
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING: Don't be afraid of rejections. She might have a boyfriend. She might not like your taste. She might not be allowed to date. and maybe shes not interested. No big deal, there will be plenty more fishes in the sea.
As long as you are confident in yourself, the confidence will show, and girls will be impressed.
2007-02-10 17:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by kitty s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can honestly compliment a woman...you'll probably either get a "thank you" or completely ignored!
In high school...I found that a woman who was wearing a colorful pin, an outstanding dress or did her hair differently DESERVED a nice compliment. This didn't necessarily mean I wanted to 'date her'---but I knew that an honest compliment would make her feel special.
And face it...most women like to feel that way!
2007-02-18 12:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by argytunes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to the girl and start with a hey. If it was meant to happen, you guys will get lost in conversation.
2007-02-10 17:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to walk up to her and introduce your self and then just ask her tons of questions about her and then tell her a lot about you.
2007-02-10 17:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by tisthething 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, try to get eye contact with her. If she looks back at you NOT in a "Why the flip is he looking at me?!" way , smile, walk up to her and say what's up
2007-02-10 17:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont think about it so much, it will only make you more shy to go and talk to her. just go say hi with a smile, and then something will come to you.
2007-02-10 17:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by thesoccerone27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your 14. and go from there.
2007-02-18 17:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how nice she looks
and she looks really pretty
i love it when i get compliments
2007-02-10 18:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋