I've not spoken to my close female friend for 2 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over her. She only wanted to be friends.
I've tried to get bck in touch as I've got over her now and I'm interested in another girl.She's been ignoring my attempts to get in touch-I've apologised if I wasn't tactful in the way I said I wanted no contact for awhie
My friends have told me that she's told them that she's ignoring me 'AS WE ARE ON A BREAK' - MEANING?
Also she thinks that I think of us as a couple!
Why would she say this - especially as I'm the one who wanted no contact TO GET OVER HER!!!
Advice
I just don't understand why she's lying!!!
Why she hurting-she wanted to be friends!
2007-02-10 09:03:57 · 15 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You needed time to get over her and she probably needed that time as well, but when she ask if you could just be friends you hurt her feelings and she is probably lying because you really hurt her. You told her she wanted a break and she told other what you said "she is ignoring you" because you hurt her and now she doesn't know how to respond to you. Give her some time or cut it off all together. Take care Heather
2007-02-10 09:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's getting off on the idea that you are/were falling in love with her. She likes rudely pointing out to your friends that the two of you have to 'have a break' from each other because she's way too hot and way too cool, and poor little you were falling head-over-heels for her, naturally.
She prefers you twisted round her little finger and she's reminding your friends about it in case anyone is missing it. Especially as you're now trying to gain her attention again.
Don't be the little poodle humping away at her ankle, just drop her like the cold stone that she is.
2007-02-10 17:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's either a bit of a b**ch and not the friend you thought she was or she felt more for you than she let on, and resents the fact that you cut all contact with her, maybe she was hoping you'd put up a bit of a fight for her. At the end of the day she's being a bit childish with the whole "we were on a break" . She's not an extra from friends is she? lol
Good luck whatever happens.
2007-02-10 17:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by princess 79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.
Right...so SHE said from the very beginning that she only wanted to be friends...then you accidently got 'too close' yes?...well sumits not right there...either you misheard or have been told wrong...or she lied to you in the first place..unless like i said, she told you she wanted to be friends BEFORE the too closeness happend!
Whoa. lots of 'closeness' lol.
We think you should maybe send her a straight forward letter or something, telling her exactly what you know about this 'situation', ya know- your side of the story. Tell her how it is- you wanna be friends and know nothing about this break-clear things up, yea?
Then see what happens really..
Hope it helps and works out.
2007-02-10 17:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tickle_funny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, it sounds like she has moved on from your friendship as you have, the best thing for you to do is get on with your life with this new girl, if your friend knows you are sorry, then once she has got over being upset, she may contact you.
2007-02-10 17:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to sit down and have a very long chat 2 sort things out - the poor girl's probably confused!!
2007-02-10 17:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by x-yoga-hun-x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably hurt when you said you wanted no contact with her, and this is her way of paying you back. Ignore her, and what she's saying, and be happy with your new girlfriend.
2007-02-10 17:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she changed her mind and wants more than just friendship? Have a chat if she'll talk to you.
2007-02-10 17:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Staf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be.
Dont get in contact again so you dont give her false hope and expectations.
2007-02-10 17:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it maybe and concentrate on the girl youre with. dont complicate your life. peace
2007-02-10 17:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋