What do men really look for in a woman?? Be honest!! no dumb answer?

Answer 1

1. small breasts
2. firm thighs
3. short hair
4. can hold her own and knows when not to
5. open minded
6. sassy at times
7. no fakes or flakes
8. can hold a conversation
9. airheads need not apply

Answer 2

Men, believe it or not, are not so preoccupied with the need to orgasm, that we quickly move from one mate to another. Now, if you sleep with us easily, we have no regard for you. So to those who believe that all men are pigs....you are wrong...SOME men are pigs...and the quickest way to attract a pig is to spread your legs too quickly. Rather, men are capitvated by one thing and one thing only: we want to be heroes. The more you make a man feel heroic, the more of a hero he'll become. I know women who brow beat their husbands into lap dogs. And their men either become puppies, lash out in retaliation, turn to drinking or gambling, or find some hussy who treats him better. On the other hand, I have a very select number of friends whose wives greet them at the door with a kiss and a smile. They lead them to an arm chair and get them a little snack. The let them rest for a few minutes before engaging in a long, drawn out conversation. And they always keep a bed warm for their man. These men are the over-achievers....the husbands who go the extra mile....the competitors who win more than they lose. And they didn't start out that way. Most of them were quite ordinary. But a good woman's influence has made them mighty and self sacrificing. Rather that worry about your bust line or the slope of you posterior, I would recommend to any woman interested in keeping a marriage or relationship together, to simply treat THEIR man like THE man. This keeps us coming home. This makes us walk away from sympathetic gals at the local bars. This keeps us honest when you can't possibly check on us. And it insures that your days are filled with love, warmth, kindness, consideration, respect, and happiness. That fact that so few women know about this is quite surprising...but that is the secret of men. Not complicated, unchanging, and totally universal. It's simple to learn and easy to execute. WARNING: This doesn't work on pigs....just men.

Answer 3

Depends on the guy, that's such a general question. Also it depends on the type of relationship the guy is looking for. Guys have a different idea of the "marrying type" and the type they just want to have fun or something casual with.

I think that one of the biggest misconceptions women have about guys is all the stuff they see in the media, so they emulate that thinking it'll get guys. Well it'll get you guys, but in most cases it'll be guys who just wanna have fun.

If you're talking about settling down with a guy, having a long term serious relationship or getting married, what we look for can be vastly different than when we're just looking for something fun or casual. So many girls that want something serious don't even realize that they're doing things to try and get a guy that sends out the vibe that your only worthy of a casual relationship.

Answer 4

1. physical attraction: for me mostly facial and size (not fat), and being a tall guy myself i like taller girls (i don't want to break my back just to kiss)
2. personality: once i find a girl physically attractive i want to get to know her, what are her hobbies, is she athletic, is she interesting to talk with. *personality can make up for decent looks, it can also turn a guy off from really hot chicks. don't be pushy or obnoxious, don't act dumb all the time, laugh, smile, and have fun with us.
3. the cat and mouse game: i know i like the girl if she has got 1 & 2 down, but she can still screw it up. do not be easy! easy girls are **** and forget girls. flirt and at the same time make us work a little bit. this phylosophy is true of other things men love to, cars, if i am given a new 06 mustang sweet, but if i buy a restoration needed 69 mustang and fix it up, i will cherish that car the rest of my life. the work in this scenario is the buying and fixing of the car, the flirt is knowing how worth it the work will be. if you don't flirt your not interested and we are chasing something that doesn't exist.

show us that you are interested, but don't be easy
answer the phone, don't give your # to guys you don't like

Answer 5

Absolutely everything! we want the body, the brain, the personality, and the money helps too. unfortunately not many women have got it all, in fact I´d say NO woman on the planet has got it all, in honesty (sorry fellas) for men it´s a trade off, when the good outwieghs the bad, you´ve got a fantastic woman. Different men require different things though, for me personality is most important, becasue that´s what you live and intereact with everyday...

Answer 6

We men are visual creatures. What we see, we like, or we can like what we see. If we can't see you, we can't be attracted to you.

That said, life is more then looks. Ladies, you have to have a mind. Be able to think for yourselves, hold your own opinions and interests, and don't just be interested in doing stuff with guys because you thiink that's what we want.

Be your own person, and let us chase you. That said, if we're not your type, be honest with us. It's tough sometimes, but it's best for the both of us.

Answer 7

This is 20 thing what I look in a gf
1samart
2good personality
3good attitude
4funny
5loves music
6plaful
7fun
8some one how is there for me
9some one how loves me
10her smile.
11her way of talking
12her dressing
13 no kids lol for real no kids
14i have to lover u r cooking
15now she can take control some times
Now its how u look but its not that much
16tall b/w 5.4 6.0
17medium size not fat or skinny
18her beauty
19strong but not were she can kik my ***
20a&t lol sorry about 20

Answer 8

I look for self confidence and a spicy attitude! A lady who would never even think of leaving her man! Oh and mild kinkyness is a plus! A lady who is confident and takes pride in her appearance! She doesnt have to have giant breasts but a nice tight butt would do the trick! But most of all if her personality doesnt get along with mine... it wont last. But this is just what I look for in a woman. Also add everything "Ice Man" said... cuz i agree with him.

Answer 9

Well the looks are what draw me in because its not like I can exactly look at a girl and say "Wow, she has a great personality, I think I'll go talk to her." So looks are what hook me. To me, perfect looks would be long dark hair and an athletic body. Like latin kind of. Then to keep me talking to her and wanting more, she has to have, of course, a great personality. I like a girl who treats everyone the same no matter what they look like. She can't be snobby or bitchy. I don't like girls who try and act "random" or "hyper" because they think it's cute and funny. I like a girl who can accept and play along with jokes. She also has to be willing to learn and willing to teach. The last thing I'll say is I like when a girl likes to hug and kiss often but not suck face or is "touchy-feely"

Answer 10

Depends on the man. Some men look for an intelligent, funny, beautiful ambitious woman.

Some men look for butt, boobs and a smile.

Some men look for a companion that compliments their lifestyle.

Some men look for a dominatrix.

Depends on the man!

Answer 11

this question is very difficult to answer. Men come in all shapes and sizes just like what they think they want all come in different shapes sizes colors personalities ect. What you need to do is figuere yourself out what kind of person are you, then ask the question what type of man would be looking for this type of women. sorry if this sounds stupid to you, but when you ask what is a man looking for, you just sterotyped men and one man is different from another so on and so on.