yea...im datng this amazing girl thats truely the most wonderful girl ive ever met...and she's really cute...and alot of guys hit on her and stuff and sometimes she plays along with them but thats not all...i justget suspicious of stupid things and i really wanna change...but i dont know how i would do that...i've tried to mentally force myself but that didnt work cause i dont know...she's a sweet and honest girl that deserves better then me if im alwys gonna question her faithfulness to me all the time...so can someone help me out with my problem?
2007-02-10 08:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by unforgetable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's this song that goes something like this: If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty women your wife go for my personal point of view and get an ugly girl to marry you.
2007-02-10 08:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joshua L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you are jealous, you will always be. But let it not get any worse than that, don't keep it in because it will just get worse and worse.
You know what? I would love to have a jealous guy liking me, and ready to put up a fight to have me.
Sometimes I would try and make a guy jealous, so that I know that I am the only one he thinks about, but it doesn't work, I get upset that I am making no difference to him, so all the more that I don't want to be with him.
Show her you will fight for her, and she will either grow to like you more, or push you away. Don't let it bug you, because you don't want to do anything like lash out on her.
2007-02-10 16:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by freezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a woman in her 40's if you don't get a grip now you will never have a good relationship You need to believe in trust that is what a relationship is based on If you have no trust you will always act as you do When you get jealous ask if you trust Has she given you a reason to not trust A little flirting is not a reason to distrust we all do a little flirting It is what makes us humans Focus on trust not anger or jealousy Always ask do I trust her has she given me a reason to not trust
2007-02-10 16:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by lynx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound just like someone i know. the problem is that you dont trust this girl or you are insecure and that is a weekness that is going to cause a big problem in your relationship. think abt the other guys she could have gotten but in the end who di she choose? be grateful for that and tlk to her abt your problems
2007-02-10 17:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shaneka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really wanna know whether you're right to be suspicious, then pay attention to her behavior. if she just plays along with guys to be nice and because she's outgoing, then she should be playing along all the time. if she's only playing along with certain kinds of guys, then she's actually interested and that would make her a player.
2007-02-10 16:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by ur_boyyy_jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to trust her. Sure you think that she deserves better, but maybe she really does love you and she wants you and she doesn't care about all those other guys that hit on her. Just trust her.....untill she does something to break that trust.
2007-02-10 16:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by chickidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend says, if you can't trust someone you'll go koo koo!
He also told me, "trust someone whole heartedly, if they give you a reason not to trust them anymore, then leave before you go crazy"
2007-02-10 16:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get professional counseling or jealousy is going to ruin your life
2007-02-10 16:50:37 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a bf just like you :( I love with all I am, but still he gets all insecure and jealous. You just have to tell yourself that you trust her and learn to trust her! it really hurts us too when you doubt and suspect us. :(
2007-02-10 16:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining. Ask her.
idiot.
2007-02-10 16:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by megiddo 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋