My life sucks i have sooo many problems.
1.My grandpa has cancer
2.My parents are getting a divorece
3.My favorite cat in the whole world died not to long ago
4.I am in a HUGE fight w/ my friend and dont wanna be her friend anymore
5.and like that isnt enouf i am having questions about my period
HELP!!
puh-lease
2007-02-10 08:46:48 · 13 answers · asked by Jackie M 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
sounds like a typical teenager to me
2007-02-10 08:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by shannonlee05@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Numbers 1 and 2 are problems. I'm sorry about your grandfather - but cancer nowadays isn't always automatically as dangerous as it once was... still, I know that's serious.
Sorry too about #3 - a pet can be the best friend in the world when you're faced with problems like 1 and 2.
Number 4 - well, don't be too hard on her, she might come around, possibly just when you need her. Let her cool off a little.
You'll have to talk to someone else about #5.
2007-02-10 08:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand.
I don't know of anybody who hasn't had a string of problems like yours at some time in their lives.
You're probably wondering how each of us made it through? Each of us has something that we always turn to when life gets rough. Some of us go shopping. Some try a new hobby, because that gets their mind off their problems. I like to volunteer, because it makes me feel good to do good for others who are less lucky than I.
I know that there are a lot of things that I can't change, but what I can change is how I feel about it. If I stew on something bad, that thing becomes so big even I can't handle it. That makes me feel a lot worse.
But, I can think of the good things in my life. Such as, I don't have a cold right now. I can go to the library and learn about whatever I choose, because I decided not to drink my problems away. I can remember the good times we had before my dad died. Its things like these that help people get through the rough times. I've even gone to parties even if I don't feel like it, because I know I will find a new friend there. Going to a movie helps, too.
We are all just like you.
Every one of us.
Find something you like to do and then do that. That is how you will survive this.
2007-02-10 09:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Hoolia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really hope your grandpa gets better :[ my teacher had cancer she made it. Just Visit him a lot and keep him encouged to Not Give up!! My parents also are divorsed. its really tough at first.. but just keep a journal and write all ur feelings in it and talk to a friend.. that always helps. Just tell ur "friend" that you don't wanna be friends any more in a nice way. OR try solving the probaly. Good Luck :D If you want you can email me, and i'll talk to you -- Lovesart38@yahoo.com
2007-02-10 08:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First try and settle your fight with your friend, try and meet her half way, and then you can talk some of these things over with them ok? I'am sorry you're having such a tough time right now, and I know you don't feel like things will get better, but try and talk to your parent's about how you feel about their divorcing and I hope you don't feel it's your fault, cause it's not!!
2007-02-10 09:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just wait it out.. in a few days things will clear up believe me.. you have to have times like this to appreciate the little things in your life.. my parents are getting divorced too.. and i just made up with my best friend.. my cat had a litter of kittens a couple of months ago.. and i need to get rid of the last kitten, who i couldn't bring myself to sell.. see so there is a flip side.. *and my grandmother died when i was a teen.. it was tough.. but looking back at all the rough times.. i'm soooo grateful i stuck it out.. and now i'm very happy.. i'm much older than you i'm sure.. but situations don't really change.. people do.. good luck my dear!
carrie
2007-02-10 08:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by iamone 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Patience, Praying and Just a caring sould and forgiving heart heals everything. Take all your problems to the Lord, trust me, in time the Lord takes care of everything, but you have to be patient. I sure hope everything works out for you...we all have tough times, and everything happens for a reason. Especially when it comes to finding out who your true friends are. take care!
2007-02-10 09:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
sounds normal to me. do you know how many people have cancer? do you know how many cats have died. what's the divorce rate today? Awwww ... only one friend? yes, i have questions about your period, too, but that's no reason to not put them at the end of your sentences.
2007-02-10 08:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry to hear that. Anyone in your shoes would be feeling the same way. God Bless you!
2007-02-10 08:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Elias 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dear it sounds like a lot of problems focus on what makes you happy and get spiritual guidance
2007-02-10 09:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋