my last girlfriend told me I was just too big for comfort - she didnt elaborate so it left me wondering
at 6'5" 290 lbs very athletic build and 8.5" down below I guess i am not small - do you think that's too big? What's your ideal?
and yes I do know its about using well, with a lovely long warmup, whatever you have got and I certainly try to constantly improve my education in that department!
2007-02-10 08:41:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it can seem too big. Like 9.5", I would be gasping and biting a rubber strap to get through the pain of that one. After you do it a few times I think it would be better. Just like when you first lose your virginity, it gets better. lol
I loove tall men. My ex was 6'4" and I loved every bit of him!
2007-02-10 08:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely a guy can be too big (body size) or have too large of a penis to allow sex to be pleasurable...however what is "too big" will vary from woman to woman as all vaginas are not the same size and what's uncomfortable or painful for one woman may feel fine or even good to another.
Average penis size is just under 6" and typically that or a bit larger works for me...I've had "large" ones but never what I'd consider huge so not sure what would be the max I could comfortably take...
2007-02-10 08:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 6'5 and hes not a little guy! If ya know what I mean. I think we were made for each other like a puzzle!!! BUT! I am glad he is not bigger than he already is because..um, I just am. Yeah, I think it can be TOO, BIG!!!
Also I have to say, I know some women say the bigger the better. It just depends on the puzzle pieces!!
2007-02-10 08:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by HappyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm interesting question. I once dated a guy who was big all around also. He used to do things that were a little irritating like put his heavy leg on me while we slept. As far as the other department well I hope you and making sure she is comfortable during the whole session. I hope you get my drift so I don't have to spell it out crudely.
2007-02-10 08:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I can't speak for other women, but in my personal experience I have found that yes, to big can hurt - especially if done too hard. Certain positions more than others though.
2007-02-10 08:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not too big IF you spend some time "down south" to make sure she's "ready". Women can give birth so big shouldn't be an issue if you're doing it right.
Good luck
2007-02-10 08:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by anneboz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have to warm up your partner, but it takes time for a woman to adjust to your size. give her a chance to get used to it and then just enjoy. She will enjoy it more once her body adjusts to your size. Take care Heather
2007-02-10 08:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are, "just toooo big"...it doesn't mean she didn't try or doesn't care, it hurt it and she couldn't find comfort in it. I mean look back at John Homes...he was hugh.
2007-02-10 08:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are gentle. Just don't go ramming any girl. Its gonna take a special one for that.
By the way... I like um big ;) Its fu**ing sexy
2007-02-10 08:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your an all around big man. DO NOT apologize for being born the way you were
2007-02-10 08:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋