Why is he playing games with me?

Question

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hi and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He said I was too weird. I'm ignoring him like he wanted, but sometimes he looks.

Answer 1

It takes two to tango and two to play such strange games. He's playing games with you because you allow him to. Cool it and he'll be forced to cool it. Unless, of course, you like being played with.