so i am really inlove with this guy but he doesnt share the same feeling. he only see me as a friend. he is the fisrt guy i have ever been inlove with for so long and so deep. whenever i am around him he makes me feel comfortable but i never seem to have much to say to him except if he ask me a question then i would answer and its mostly yes or no. i always have something to tlk abt with his friends but not with him. i dont know what to tlk abt especially when i am hurting so much knowing that he doesnt share the same feelings. what can i tlk to him abt? he always take me home in the evenings and his best friend who likes me but he knows where i stand. i want him more than i have ever wanted a guy before. i dont even have any interest in anyone else even though i have tried to get over it for the past 3 years, its not working.i move to my mother house to get some distance and then i realize how much i miss and want to see him and when i saw him again my heart stopped. help me plz????
2007-02-10 08:17:30 · 7 answers · asked by Shaneka H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's a fantasy in your head about the perfect guy, and you think it might be him.
you don't want a lot of conversation in case the dream is shattered.
so you need to decide....either start talking and find your way in the real world, or have sex with him while you still have the innocent fantasy intact.
he can't read your mind, so either tell him or show him how you feel.
2007-02-10 08:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too shy, ask his best friend to pass a word for you. Then go from there.
Good luck!
2007-02-10 08:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows about the way u feel and he doesn't feel that way, i wouldn't "bother" him about it but i would keep him around; and it sounds like one of those really, really, really big crushes to me.
2007-02-10 08:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Arielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur just infatuated, try going out with someone else to try to get over him, or just leave him alone for a few days, or go shopping ;)
2007-02-10 08:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥BabyGirl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you ask him out
than if that does not work, ask him what he dreams to have, than try to buy it, and tell your real feeling about him. and if he does not appriaciate it than just drop him .........
2007-02-10 08:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him him but when youre around him youre speechless then take it form there
2007-02-10 08:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel.
2007-02-10 08:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Firas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋