when we're at the mall or anywhere public
2007-02-10 08:14:28 · 23 answers · asked by BrownSugah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BrownSugar, men are very visual...we appreciate the sight of a pretty woman from time to time. As long as he is not chasing them down in the mall, just let him sneak his peeks.
2007-02-10 08:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how hard you wish, men can't help but notice a pretty female. It would be like standing on the beach and there being a beautiful sunset, how could you not at least glance at it and appreciate it's beauty? Instead of looking jealous and simmering, be confident in your own beauty, make comments like she has nice hair but i blow her away in the sexy eyes department don't you think?
He'd then see your a confident women and can handle the fact that there are other attractive people, but that he may not meet another with as good as an attitude as yours.
That is a hard thing to find, looks AND personality.
If he's practically drooling right in front of you though, that's a little different and he sounds like a slimeball.
2007-02-10 16:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by nymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do realize that guys as well as females do this, but its a matter of respect, and this can actually be done intact, discretely and you never even notice that he looked at someone not that its right but sometimes although you do love who you're with you don't become totally blind to the fact that there are other attractive people in the world, so he should respect you and make sure if he looks you never even notice that he looked, I mean he can't like be turning around doing a 360 and you're standing right there, for that I would be mad because like I said its a respect issue, and he would have just disrespected me....
2007-02-10 16:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking strangers how you should feel? Can't you decide what you feel without others dictating it to you?
If you do get mad, then you are insecure and it'll probably be the downfall of your relationship. If you do not get mad then why would you worry that you should be? A mature, secure person won't worry that their partner (male or female) behaves like a typical human and notices other attractive people.
2007-02-10 16:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From girl to girl I gotta say...it can be a little irritating but it is the nature of people to look at others. Boys are just not that good at it which is why we can always tell they are doing it. Do what I do...make it a game. When I see my boyfriend quickly glance at another girl, I will take a look at her too and comment on how hot she is. Normally, it makes it a more comfortable situation and he will shift his attention back to what an awesome girl he has on his own arm.
2007-02-10 16:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by robdog9151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would be very offended. If he has wandering eyes now, it'll never change.
And NO, it's not just "a guy thing." He should have eyes for only you, or else he shouldn't be with you.
Of course, if you're in junior high or an early high school age, guys are going to look. They're young and immature at that age.
2007-02-10 16:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a sec is ok , dont mad , what will u do maybe other girls is more attract that u , so for u ,more make ur self prettier than others and besides what will u do with ur bf eyes put handkerchief , then hold him cared him to walk like blind
2007-02-10 16:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some women, it's different. I myself, don't get jealous if my man looks at other women. But this is because I feel comfortable in my relationship. My girlfriends have looked at me after my man has made some comment about a woman that walked past us, or a woman that he has seen on television; "ARe you going to let him do that?"
But again, I feel comfortable in our relationship; he's not cheating on me.
The reason we have split up is not because of this.
Looking at other women is fine. We look at other men. The reason we aren't as vocal about it as they are is because if we say such things, they will say...
"he's gay" or something of that nature.
2007-02-10 16:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ahead and get mad if you need something about which to get mad. Does he get mad if you check out the guys and their package? Each couple have to develop their own "rules" (which are often unspoken) and you two have to develop your own. Society's rules or rules of thumb just don't hack it in relationships.
2007-02-10 16:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just like you...I get mad if my bf looks at some other girl, but the again if some really handsome guy passes by me I look too..I guess we humans appreciate beauty. :P
As long as he doesnt run behind that girl! vice versa too!
:) :)
2007-02-10 16:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋