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Im with this guy right now n i really do like him ..... but i cheat on him all the time i feel really bad about it n i wish i could just stop but i cant . I dont know whut it is or y i feel the need to cheat .... he is a really nice guy . So tell me why do i cheat n how can i stop?

2007-02-10 07:57:02 · 43 answers · asked by Jawzlynn 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

43 answers

Because you like to have sex.....maybe some people may call you a *****.

2007-02-10 08:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 2 3

You're cheating probably because:
1) He's not the right guy..so if you're cheating on him you should just get it over with and dump him
2)You're not ready to commit ..so stay single and be honest with the ppl you are dating
3) You emotionally have problems committing and should maybe see a therapist and figure it out.

You really need to stop hurting people and get to the bottom of why you are undermining your own happiness...since it sounds like you would like to be faithful to this nice guy.

Remember, each day is a new opportunity to make the decisions that lead us in becoming the person we want to be.

2007-02-10 17:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by R! 2 · 0 0

You are feeding some need and you won't stop the cheating until you realize that the need you are feeding is not being "fixed" by your cheating. In other words, if cheating scratched the itch you feel that causes you to cheat, you'd have to cheat only once. Get to the bottom of why you feel so badly about yourself (my guess is that you feel you aren't loveable and so cheat to "prove" you are lovable and that's the "fix" that doesn't work. It'll likely take some work and perhaps some help in the form of therapy.

2007-02-10 08:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0 0

OK well not to be mean but you need some help and you need to deal with your problems, the first thing you need to realize it that your wrong and you shouldn't be cheating on him.think of what you would do if you found out your bf was cheating on you. Tell him that you cheated on him and ask for forgiveness and you need to either dump him and just go to guy to guy without having a bf or be content with the man you have.otherwise he's gonna get really hurt and so are you.

2007-02-10 08:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

We can't tell u why u're cheating, only you can figure that out. It seems that u're letting your emotions lead you instead of u controlling them.

Try staying away from sex for a while if u can and bring it under some kind of control but if u can't, then the problem is u. Not to make u feel bad because we all have emotions but u're not really ready to settle down with him. U need to burn out this desire before u can attempt to commit yourself.

2007-02-10 08:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nuwaubian Moor 3 · 0 0

I don't mean this to sound harsh, but you do not love him and you certainly don't respect him. When you love somebody, and I mean really love somebody, you are incapable of doing something that you know will cause them that much pain. It also sounds a lot like you don't have a whole lot of respect for yourself if you are willing to let so many guys put their hands on you. I think you need to do the right thing and let your boyfriend go and find happiness with somebody who really loves him. And after that you need to take a hard look at yourself and find out why you treat yourself like you are worthless.

2007-02-10 08:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because of a big self-esteem issue you have. You are living down to your expectations which are not good at all.

How you think about yourself is the problem and when someone else has a higher opinion of you than you do of yourself, you are going to do things to match that image to reality.

I would really seek counseling for yourself because you are not going to get the degree of help you need from this forum.

2007-02-10 08:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You adore him a lot --- which is great, but not enough.

Women or girls who cheat tend to do it because they like the attention. Sounds horrible, but it is true. We like to be noticed, we like knowing that we have that power to be noticed, and that sense of power can be addictive, can become a slippery road which leads to cheating. You're not a bad person, you probably just feel like there's something incomplete with either him, what you have with him, or in all likelihood --- yourself.

All I can say is, examine how you really feel about yourself and him. Either stop seeing anyone at all, or talk to him. If he really cares for you then he deserves to know, and you deserve to be able to talk to him about it.

2007-02-10 08:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 2 · 1 0

I don't know how you could stop, other than opening up your mouth and say "no" to the other guys that ask you out.
But I do agree with the ones that called you a skanky ho. That's all you are if you continually cheat on your boyfriend.

2007-02-10 08:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0 0

well first maybe you feel you need more or maybe the person your cheating on him with is to important to you that you don't want to let him go and you don't want to hurt the other guys feeling so you keep it a secret about the other guy but the truth is if you cheat on him it will hurt then dumping

2007-02-10 08:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well... your weak. Think of him before you are going to do something like that. Think about how crushed he will be if he ever finds out, the thought of him will make you stop.

i can't say you dont love him. because sometimes we do love someone but our carnal self sometimes just gives in and we lose sense of our priorities. if this happends VERY often, then i'd have to say that no you don't love him.

but anyway just work on the method that i stated above, it should stop you in your tracks. you'll feel great about your decisions later on

2007-02-10 08:01:43 · answer #11 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0 0

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