well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?
2007-02-10 07:46:29 · 9 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She still likes u and I know this becuz I m a gurl and she would not look at u if she didnt and also u can tell if a gurl likes u becuz she would not try to get your attention
2007-02-10 07:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Monet B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, sounds like one of two cases:
1. She likes you a bit because she knows you like her, and you've obviously been sending attention her way or else she wouldn't have told you she'd think about it, she probably would've just told you a no straightup. If this is the case, she said no because of peer pressure, how her friends judge you, and friends almost always win out when girls are younger (I'm assuming she's still in k-12).
2. She doesn't like you that way but she told you she'd think about it because she didn't have the courage to tell you to your face. It's definitely not cool that she got her friends to tell you her answer. Girls in middle school/highschool are definitely not nice - nothing you can do about that.
Either way, the best thing to do is to just focus on other things. Don't fret about this stuff, there's a girl out there who deserves your attention, plus you can better use your energy elsewhere.
2007-02-10 07:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said no, then its probally no. Girls dont like tellign guys no, expecially if you guys have class together, its just too okward. She is shy around you, because she doesnt know how to confront you anymore, its like a friendship was lost. She might still like you, but maybe as just a friend. Hint: Just try to be her friend, gain the "playfulness" back.
2007-02-10 08:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by allie_cat_andry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is having second thoughts she is wondering dose he look right for me i wonder what we would have been like she is starting to grow to like the idea of a couple thing my guess is that her friends talked her in 2 sayin no cause she only said I'll think about it coz you caught her off guard or she wanted to see what her friends thought about the idea i would say go up and talk to her about anything causal and fun get the ball rollin again other wise you will never be the same again.
2007-02-10 07:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by moco-frap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry im not a girl but ive been in this exact situation
shes probably just shy because she doesnt want to lead you on, yet she still wants to be friends, like before all this.
your probably confused because you still like her a lot......
o by the way. i could be way off base on this...anyone could
the best thing to do would be talk to her
2007-02-10 07:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by nascarfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ,what you really should do ,first of all before knowing if she likes you or not.Ask yourself: do I really love her?Am I interesting ?or just because she seems interested?
If you really like her,then you'd better ask her once again & tell her that you love her&if she wants to be with you or not.
Good luck
2007-02-10 07:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Emmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to quit playing games. You didnt hear it from her did you.
It could be she said no and then afterwards she started to like you.
2007-02-10 07:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out again to her face and dont leave until you get a definate answer....
good luck.
2007-02-10 07:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you she will came around if not some other hot chik will go out with you.
2007-02-10 07:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋