Me and my girl friend of 18 months split over 2 months ago and I can't get over her. the whole college thing really took a tole on both of us. We tried so hard to make it work for the whole first quarter of college. It was so increadibly hard to go from seeing each other literally everyday of the week to only on the weekends. when we split she gave me the "not forever" "I still have feelings for you" "just for now" crap. I know I can't wait around for her. It's killing me. I want to be happy on my own without her! .. then maybe in the summer time we'll meet up again and try to make things work. But that'll never work till i figure out to be happy on my own and with myself. Some of the problem is.. I'm a shy guy. It's hard for me to make friends honestly..she was ALWAYS there for me. we were perfect together..but now I need to figure out how to be happy with my self. I joined the rowing team, which gets me out of the dorm..so that's a positive step.
2007-02-10 07:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I be happy on my own without her. It seems like I think about her all the time...they say "time heals everything" but its been over 2 months. We havn't even really talked siince the split..since I truely think we need time apart for the time being to find ourselves. Thats kinda what the split was about. But I truely believe that this split was increadibly difficult for her. I think she felt this was the only choice. She said in a letter after the split "when my world started to crash down around me and I started getting bad grades I knew I had to end the commitment"..but she also said in the letter that she hopes one day we can be happy together. I know I can't focus on that right now.. I need to focus on stuff around me...and ME. What can I do.
2007-02-10 07:46:46 · update #1
yea..next yr im prob transfering to OSU which is a college that she's prob going to go to..so the distance thing wont be a factor forever..if we end up back together..but RIGHTNOW what can I do to get her off my mind for the time being
2007-02-10 07:47:51 · update #2
I think you are on the right track.Keep yourself busy with other things and people.I'm shure you are a great guy and the right girl will come along when the time is right.Remember you are young you have a lifetime of finding yourself and the things that make you happy.
2007-02-10 07:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something you like to do and meet someone with the same interest and try to volunteer
2007-02-10 15:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
? I dunno, just try to stay positive no matter what , and than things will work out for the best.
2007-02-10 15:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋