i am a black female and I have recently wanted to date white men. I have here and there. But I had to rely on the interenet to find them and I live in NY!! it should be easier here. but I think they think we do not want them I see them looking at me all the time. but they hesistate, they look like they are falling into the sterotype. anyway where can I find one that is into really getting to know me as a person and not as interested in the whole sexual experimintation thing.
2007-02-10 07:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by cinnamon43212002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as for the guy who said I may want revenge. why is it that I have to be dogged to want a white man. I just have the same interests as them that is all. I have never been dogged by a black man. and for the guy who said to paint myself white, I would never change who I am. why would I, I have natural long hair, real t&a. and a real tan!!!!
2007-02-10 07:42:44 · update #1
SWEETIE , ANY MAN WHO SHARES YOUR INTERESTS SHOULD BE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. YOU ARE SPEAKING ABOUT WHITE MEN LIKE THEY ARE SOME KIND OF PETS OR SOMETHING. AND YOU ARE STEREOTYPING THEM BY ASSUMING THEIR TRAIN OF THOUGHT. FACE IT YOU WANT WHAT EVERY WOMAN WANTS, SOMEONE WHO WANTS THEM AS THEY ARE. WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE WHAT COLOR THEY ARE?
2007-02-10 08:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by alleykat1971 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Speaking as a white guy, I have indeed met several black women I'd be happy to date. I've met some that I wouldn't give a wrong phone number to. No different than anybody else.
I think sometimes white males might take a step back due to being over sensitised. We might be a little hesitant about approaching a woman of color and suggesting a date. The biggest fear a guy has about being rejected is the word "NO". Big hit to the ego. Given the level of racial tensions today and the fact that YT is blamed for everything from hurricanes to poverty I think some white males may step back from a potential mixed race relationship out of fear. Too bad really.
Where to find? I don't know. Where does any body find a future lover / boyfriend / mate of any race these days? That's where. Friends, co-workers, clubs, church groups, fairs, anywhere. Tough one. Maybe you have to make the first move and signal someone you're interested in that you are not a threat.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-10 07:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are crazy to think a white man is going to be the one you need. black men are not dealing with sis-ta now because of things like this. This is the same reason black men are fuc*** white girls. I agree with alleykat every women wants a MAN to love then them and be real with them. I'm still looking in all shapes and sizes.
2007-02-13 05:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mutual friend, blind date, meet at a party or event
You may bump into one on the subway.
What is a nice white guy? This is not going to help you. Your mentality needs to be that you would like to find a nice guy.
2007-02-10 07:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Escape 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol um it shouldnt be that hard. i date white guys all the time (i live in MD) um maybe you should widen your circle of friends. i have an extremely diverse group of friends but white is the majority it seems...as a result i meet new ppl all the time. btw im black too!! lol l8ter n good luck.
2007-02-10 10:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Gone, Gone, Gone. 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you can try goin to a club or bar...or if your at college or school, then im sure you will find a nice white guy girl! dont stress on it girl, good luck! x
2007-02-10 07:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to help you but I like white guys too so I know how you feel.
2007-02-10 08:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
umm...wtf this isnt carvel where you can just choose your ice cream flavor..
why does a man have to be racially profiled especially to your liking..you cant help who you fall for..and you shouldnt go looking for someone just b/cuz their a certain race
2007-02-10 07:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i'm a white guy that doesn't mind getting to know you as a person... hit me up ;)
2007-02-10 07:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i dont like white boys, but try eharmony.com
2007-02-10 13:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by grinch 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋