so i am really inlove with this guy but he doesnt share the same feeling. he only see me as a friend. he is the fisrt guy i have ever been inlove with for so long and so deep. whenever i am around him he makes me feel comfortable but i never seem to have much to say to him except if he ask me a question then i would answer and its mostly yes or no. i always have something to tlk abt with his friends but not with him. i dont know what to tlk abt especially when i am hurting so much knowing that he doesnt share the same feelings. what can i tlk to him abt? he always take me home in the evenings and his best friend who likes me but he knows where i stand. i want him more than i have ever wanted a guy before. i dont even have any interest in anyone else even though i have tried to get over it for the past 3 years, its not working.i move to my mother house to get some distance and then i realize how much i miss and want to see him and when i saw him again my heart stopped. help me plz????
2007-02-10 07:26:58 · 4 answers · asked by Shaneka H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your just gonna have to deal with him or make fall in love with you
either or
2007-02-10 07:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by deed792 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you have nothing to talk about with him, well talk about how you feel. In most cases men are not the ones to be the emotion breaker. So if your ready for what his answer will be then go for it, instead of wasting your time wondering, either way it will be a chance to move on with or without him. Sometimes we can't always be with the person we want to be with, that's just life. But we never know until we put it out there. When I like a guy I just tell him and whatever the outcome is I just deal with it.At least he knows what he passed up,and could of had because I let him know how I felt. So get some strength and confidence and go for it, the worst that can happen is he tells you he only wants to be friends. And that's fine because in a few years he might regret that.
2007-02-10 15:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something about him that you truly admire. You want to be perfect for him, but you aren't sure how. It seems like a lot of pressure. I think you should give it some time while you build confidence in yourself. You're not always going to get love in return when you love someone. And part of it may be because you know he doesn't have feelings for you ~ it may just be a challenge on your part. (like a hunt, and you want your kill)
2007-02-10 15:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unrequited love for 3 years? What almost unbearable torture for you. Why haven't you accepted his feelings and moved on?
How much longer will you go on like this?
I know you are hurting but you should go with someone else who will grow to love you and return your feelings so you can both be happy.
2007-02-10 15:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋