ok i've been liking this guy and so i did everything i can to get him. i've asked for his number and i called him a couple of times and talked, but he only called me like three times ... he doesn't notice me a lot. sometimes he will, but sometimes no. i know he's sometimes jack-a** and he's a big flirt. my friends told me to forget about him and that's wat i did. then i went to a party and he was there and i danced with him A LOT :D like i danced wit him a lot that by end of the night my hair smells like him. but idk ... will he still notice me at school? or just notice me? i'm just glad that i'm kinda over him ... but should i still try to like him again?
2007-02-10 07:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that you're going too much after this guy, you should work more on making him come to you, then you going towards him. Make yourself noticed by him, but don't be too obvious like throwing yourself at him, for him to dance with you all night long, next time only dance with him for one song or two, and see how he reacts to that... If he's turned on, then he'll come after you and'll want to dance more with you.... you're a lady, you should use your lady ways to attract him... good luck
2007-02-10 07:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by UrADumbFuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm answering with a guy point of view... Tryin' to "get" a guy is not that ethical... Let boys/men chase you, else you're scorin' the wrong impression. from what I've realised from your message you're very young, so a guy shouldn't matter that much this moment. just play with all that come near you and after a while you'll be able to make the right choice. Hurryin' things up you'll only get a wrong impression about how things are around you. you just have to be patient and to discover what is really important in life. a match is hard to find and even harder if your judgement is based only on looks. feelings have to be both ways, otherwise you're just gonna be unhappy and blind to see who is really worth of your attention...
In simple words: a woman's stategy is to play and choose, a man's one is to chase and fight to be choosed. in the end everybody is happy. trust me! it works since like ever....
2007-02-10 07:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to TRY to like him. Then you don't really like him. So be over him and move on. If he does like you, he's not putting any real effort into showing it. So if you did start to date him, he'd not show you much affection and only be around when it suits him best. Seems to me he's a bit self centered. You can do better.
2007-02-10 07:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt go outta your way to impress him just play it cool and wait for him to make the next move if he really likes you then he will if not then just forget about him but in the process dont put yourself way out there ( wearing skimpy clothing and such) just play it cool and make yourself noticable but not in the wrong way (being loud, wearing slutty clothes) maby try to get closer to him but not in the creepy stalking way just talk to him and stop putting him on a pedistool b/c no one is "to good" for you and stop thinking like that b/c by the way it sounds thats what you are thinking
2007-02-10 07:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Meagan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT a guy you should take seriously. He likes to flirt, which is fine. But, with him, it doesn't mean anything. So try not to let him get to you. Just enjoy a little banter with him and move on.
2007-02-10 07:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends
Why waste valuable time on Mr Wrong when Mr Right is out there for you.
2007-02-10 07:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no Get over him, the way i see it, is that if you Put out all this effort to get him to Like yu and what not, and he doesn't even seem Like he is noticing you, don't cary it on, I mean you did what you could, and you can only do your best. and you did, and he doesn't seem to care
2007-02-10 07:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nate C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wait for him to come to you play hard to get and if he likes you it will show very soon!
2007-02-10 07:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop tryna plan stuff out.. u cannot stop yourself or make yourself like someone..it just happens.
whatever is meant to happen, will happen
good luck <3
hope this helped
2007-02-10 07:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is either not interested, or is interested in more than just you. either way, im sure you can find someone who gives you the attention you need.
2007-02-10 07:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by outsider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋