I need help with a girl?

Question

Well i ment this girl in real life when she was visting my friend. She lives in a different state so after she left we started talking over the internet and we became really close. She told me she like me over the internet and we saw each other like 3 other time after we ment. Then when she was down here one time she ment this other guy and she started going out with him and we stop talking. But now she moved here and she broke up with that guy she was going out with but we still don't talk that much. Im pretty sure she doen't like me anymore cause she beautiful and popular and well im not popular. We haven't talk for like 6 months and i still really like her and don't know what to do. I know this doesn't make sense but please give me advice i just really don't know what to do and im pretty sure she likes this other guy

I do talk to her on aim once in a while but i have to start the converstaion and im a really shy guy and i just don't want to ask her out or anything like that because i think it would be weird if she said no and when ever we see each other in school and im scared of rejection

Answer 1

but you aint gettin her ok?

Answer 2

Sweetie if she told you that she liked you then turned around and started dateing this other guy then there are two things.....Either she doesn't like you like that anymore or she's not sure if you still like her. Her being pretty and popular and you not being popular shouldn't have anything to do with it but that could be the case also....their are some girls out their thats like that but since you don't really want to walk up to her and get rejected then write her an email explaining exactly how you feel and tell her that your very shy and you don't want things to become weird cause even if her answer is a rejection then you would still like to remain friends. But honey if she does reject you don't worry about it cause the is a girl out their that would love to be with you and don't go looking for it in all the wrong places. But I'm going to be honest with you, by what you've told me she sounds like she would end up hurting you, cause when some other guy comes around thats better looking or something liek that she'll leave you for them. then when it doesn'r work out with him she'll come back to you. so make sure that she's what you really want cause once you get hurt, it will never go away.

Answer 3

Hey, man, I say just be bold, put urself on the line and get to know her a little bit more..or ask her out if u know her well enough already.

Sure, u might burn and get rejected...belive me, I'm totally with you on that "I cant take rejection" thing...I cant stand it. But we all lose sometimes. Its after we get rejected or lose, that we really appreciate what it means to win.

"Fortune favours the bold" Alexander the Great apparently once said. Be bold, take a huge risk, put ur pride on the line. And unless u take huge risks, u wont win huge outcomes of life, like this girl u like.

So ask her out. Take whatever comes at you as it comes. Whether its rejection or acceptance...dont think about it now. Think about it when it happens. Thinking about it now will just freeze you over. Let life take its course and stop letting ur personal expectations make u scared of the outcome.
Go for it, buddy.

Answer 4

Since you're shy, you're probably ignorant and doesnt know that long distance relationships doesn't work unless you're really in love. You're better than her and you need to move on with your life. She has already moved on. You're about to get played if you stay, Think about it. You like her, she likes you. Yet' she had a relationship with someone else Now she's back and you're single and still in like with her. She's gonna use you and then leave you. Get over her and read some books. Good luck.

Answer 5

Whats the worst that can happen if she rejects you. She told you she liked you over the internet once which is solid grounding that she had feelings for you. How would you feel if you were stuck on a plane that you knew was going to crash, you were going to die, and you realized that you never asked this girl out?

Answer 6

you have to get more courage. you can't be afriad of rejection. when you ask a girl, she has already made up her mind before. so if she says no, she doesn't like you anyways, so don't worry about it. it sounds like she is just using you as a boy to talk to untill she meets someone she really likes. when girls like you they will find ways of talking. just don't worry about girls, that's usually when you'll start to attract them. start caring more about who you are and school. then the girls will just come with time.

Answer 7

You'll never know if you don't try. At least, you can't expect anything to happen if you don't do anything. Try telling her what you feel. Oh, and popularity has nothing to do with it.

Answer 8

tell her how you feel. yes it's a big risk but if you like her that much it should be worth it. if she likes you then great if not it'll be ok. you'll find another girl and ya'll will fall in love.

Answer 9

You've already made up your mind. Keep quiet, don't take risks and never find out.

Answer 10

It sounds like she's over you unfortunately. Try getting over your shyness and talk to her more, please don't stalk her though as trust me that would freak her out. Good luck :)

Answer 11

It really does not make sense.
Grow up ! Move on !