He said he's not usually so fast. It was our first time. I'd say it lasted about 30 seconds.
2007-02-10 06:52:27 · 16 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not our first time having s e x, just our first time with each other.
2007-02-10 06:52:54 · update #1
He must not have had sex in quite awhile...Then when he is having it, it happens too fast. But the second time should have lasted....
2007-02-10 06:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by M.R.M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unusual for the first time together. Give him a chance and let him get relaxed. Give him a little support. If he continues to have fast ejaculation problems it has nothing to do with you. REALLY. He just doesn't have the skills. It also depends on how old you are and how experienced he is. He might try a cock ring if it continues and you want to keep up with the relationship. They can be found on the internet with other sex toys. - This is from a 50 something/f.
2007-02-10 06:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May things could be contributory to your problem. 1: your age...and experience level. 2.
How long it has been since your last release. 3: The duration and intensity of the preceeding foreplay. 4: How intensely you desired the partner you so dreadfully disappointed. 5: If the actual act caught you by suprise and the mear shock that you were actually having a physical encounter with another person, and not your hand...
2007-02-10 07:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Eugene F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a second chance, but be relaxed and not overly aggressive if his performance is not perfect again ... I guess it takes some time to have a good physical relation ...
2007-02-10 06:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just assume he has been waiting to have sex with you and is soo attracted to you he couldn't help it. Test it out though, see what happens the second and third time.
2007-02-10 06:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time and experience, he will be able to last longer. Guys just sometimes have a "hair trigger' where women don't.
2007-02-10 06:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had been anticipating it for awhile and was just way too excited. Don't worry,I'm sure it will be better next time, I would be worried if he never got off lol.
2007-02-10 06:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural for premature ejsculation on the first time..both of your emotions are at a high point and a younger guy just doesnt have self control either .. so its natural
2007-02-10 06:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it keeps happening again he has that disorder pre-ejucalted thing... some guys have it and you can treat it with meds... or maybe he has not had any sex in a while or maybe your good? who knows ask the doc
2007-02-10 06:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably means that he was pretty excited... ie. likes you a lot and was looking forward to "it" so much that he couldn't wait.
2007-02-10 06:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋