We were together for 4 1/2 years he lived with me for a little while and then I found out he was on the internet talking to girls, so I broke it off made him move out and of course we went through the break up drama, well we still kept talking things calmed down and every day he called and confessed that he loved me and I was his life, well I fell sucker to it and we are back together but he then moved to Texas to start our life, buy a big house and to work in the correctional faclitly. Well we have made this long distance relationship work but just as of yesterday I found our he had a myspace of course I couldnt see who he was talking to b/c it was blocked, I did a little more diging and he was talking to female friends again but this girl he was talking to is the one who caused problems.. I love this guy so much and I couldnt wait to marry him and have kids with regardless of our what problems we came across. What should I do? Im so hurt I love this man thru thick & thin. BrknHrt
2007-02-10 06:35:58 · 4 answers · asked by IaMClueLeSS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see how sad you are but your man has other females in his mind even though he says that he love you it doesn't mean he is not cheating on you,I say that because I been trough this situation before.You need to move on with your life and find someone who will care about you and a person who you can trust because love without trust is no love,girl don't waist your time any longer with this guy because one day you will find out what is really going on with your boyfriend and the other girl and it will hurt a million times more than it would of if you break up with this jurk now.Good luck and make the right decision...
2007-02-10 06:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to change. So, you either have two choices:
1) Cut your losses and get out now
OR
2) Recognize him for what he is and be willing to deal with him doing you wrong
I think you know deep down the right choice, it's a matter of caring about yourself.
2007-02-10 14:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kbear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe let him have his "secret garden" and pretend you know nothing ... and focus on yourself (have fun, make the best of your appearances, read some interesting books) ... after all, you are the real one, not the virtual one ... and sometimes men are confused before commitment (strong feelings and serious relations might scare them, so they sort of need a private space just to calm their nerves before marriage...)
2007-02-10 14:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as I have said on this site several times.. if a person cheats once. they will do it again...always..no exceptions.. been throuogh the over and over.. loose him. hes not the one to keep
2007-02-10 14:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by road runner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋