but he always beg or cry to come back now recently we move out of louisiana 2 alabama do he really care about me or is he just playing games with me not to mention we been 2grther since 2005 thats a long time for me!!!!!!
2007-02-10 06:31:26 · 21 answers · asked by nekke3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HIM! he's just using crocaldile tears!
2007-02-10 06:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never stay with someone that cheats, and if I did then I would stay knowing that at any moment he could be with another girl. That kind of relationship is more of an open relationship "see other people" relationship.
You don't want to stay with someone that treats you that way! I don't care if he is standing in the rain with a dozen flowers, leave him out there and let him soak. I mean once is bad but ALL THE TIME. If he didn't learn his lesson the first time he never will.
2007-02-10 14:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm not sure if this is going to help you or not but I'll try..... Don't always believe that once a cheater always a cheater because things make you do stupid **** without thinking. and it doesn't mean they don't love you, now you do always have to keep an open mind to the fact they might do it again. I'm going to tell you a little story about the person I'm in love with and have been for 5yrs in "know your source".
2007-02-10 14:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, once a cheater always a cheater, get rid of him and find someone who really cares about you. He would not of cheated if he was in love with you. You are a good person and deserve to be treated well. Take care Heather
2007-02-10 14:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated more than once,that you know of.If you stay expect more heartache.Better 2 years than 10 years and that he's still up to no good.Leave him and enjoy your freedom right now.Don't rush into anything,it'll be too soon.Go out with your friends and forget him.He'll find someone else to cheat on.Don't allow him to come around you because if you do,he'll try and talk his way back in.You deserve better,just keep telling yourself that over and over again.Take care&Good luck.
2007-02-10 14:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe everyone deserves a 2nd chance but if its happened more than once its gonna continue to happen because you have let him get away with what hes doing you havent made him prove himself before you took him back and now he knows all he has to do is shed a few tears and beg alittle and your gonna take him right back so its totally up to you how you want to be treated but if it were me i would be gone even if its been 20 years. sorry best of luck to you and by the way i do speak from experience.
2007-02-10 14:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has alreadt cheated twice and he cries because he didn't have no where else to go because the person he cheated with probably wasn't worth it and you took him back but he will do it again so kick him out and find someone that will not cheat on you, your b/f does not love you because if he did he would not have cheated.
2007-02-10 14:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pack your bags and leave..once a man cheats once..he'll cheat again. He cries because he knows you'll take him back no matter what! you totally deserve better:) & also, 1 year is a really long time; and it should mean something not to lead to cheating
2007-02-10 14:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Now you are in a new location and he will start again. Also there is nothing wrong with living alone and just being yourself. It is not a crime not to have a boy friend. Personally I like the peace and tranquility of being alone.
2007-02-10 14:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's doesn't care about you enough to remain faithful. Love has got to be more than words and actions DO speak louder than words. You may want to start listening to his actions instead of just his words. You deserve someone who will be true to you even when life settles down. We're talking about your heart here! How much more pain can you take?
2007-02-10 14:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question for you is, WHY DO YOU ALLOW HIM TO CHEAT ON YOU REPEATEDLY?? He begs and cries to come back, you allow it, he cheats again! He has no respect for you or your relationship! He uses you for a regular piece of booty and cherishes the outside booty and you allow it!! My advise, KICK HIS AZZ TO THE CURB AND FIND A MAN THAT WILL RESPECT YOU BEFORE YOU WASTE ANYMORE TIME ON THIS PLAYER!!!!!!!!!!! Hope this helps.
2007-02-10 14:38:27 · answer #11 · answered by Lonnie F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋