Okay, i want to go to the movies with a girl this coming friday, and i'm going to ask her during that week. what day of the week will be best to ask her. i think friday might be too late, she might already have plans, and wednesday might be too early, that i might look desperate. so what day should i ask her?
also, is it better to ask a girl out after talking to her for a little bit, or to rush up to her and ask her? because i think ill probably ask her like right at the end of my last class, where i sit next to her.
2007-02-10 06:21:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Such a cute question.......
You really should hide in the bathroom while one of your friends ask her for you.
DON'T YOU DARE!
Asking someone out is not an strategic ambush requiring covert planning!
But it does require some consideration of the different factors involved and your interest in doing the 'right thing' is endearing so, here goes.....
Ask as soon as possible. Show that you are respectful of her time, her schedule, her right not to be 'rushed.' She may have to get her parents approval, clean her room, run an errand, find something special to wear, do her nails, re-adjust her schedule, find that 'just right' lipstick (whatever) before going. You don't know what she has going on, so you need to give her ample time to prepare. Otherwise, she may be a bundle of nerves when you pick her up.
Think about how you would go about asking any of your male friends to do something with you. If you asked your best friend two weeks ahead to go on Friday, would he think you desperate? Of course not! She is no different. Waiting until Thursday to find anyone to do something with you on Friday is never a good plan. So, show some respect and ask ahead.
Also, waiting until the last moment, puts the question of whether or not you have just found yourself with nothing better to do in her mind. Did your other plans fall through? Did your other date cancel? Is she just a last minute fill in for someone else? You don't want her wondering about those kinds of things, do you? You want her to feel that going out with her is important enough to you that you are willing to plan it out.
Instead of asking specifically if she wants to see the movie, it is sometimes better to just ask if she wants to do 'something.' Telling her you will call to work out details. Because if you ask her to see the movie and she says she already has, you will be dead in the water right there and that can be hard to overcome. So, don't limit your date to her approval of any specific plan. Be open. Slot the time (Friday evening) when asking, not the event.
You can do this!
Have a great time and enjoy yourself!
2007-02-10 07:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, any day is perfectly great! The day doesn't matter that much...don't do it too late like Friday..you want to give her some notice. You could do it as early as monday or tuesday..I don't think you'd look desperate...but im my opinion WEDNESDAY is ideal. Thats where the money is. Its right in the middle..enough time, but not too much time.
About asking her out..you could just walk up to her and ask...but I would rather have a guy start a conversation with me..talk for a while...and then say something like "hey, so I was wondering, if youre not doing anything, if you wanted to go to the movies with me on friday"...or some version of that. If your asking her after class, talk to her while you get your books together, and as your leaving the class..if your heading in the same direction, walk with her and ask her then.
2007-02-10 06:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your definetly on the right track.....asking her out on Wednesday won't make you look desperate, it will show her that you are respectful of her time and schedule. It will give her time to plan it out...what she will wear, etc(yanno, it's a girl thing) Better to ask her out after you have spoken with her a bit rather than rushing up to her. I hope it goes well :)
2007-02-10 06:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely, especially a lot something yet a Monday! anybody hates Mondays! i do not imagine Wednesday's too early, and that i imagine that's an exceptionally good time to ask a lady out. It provides her sufficient time to truly flow abode and verify her scedule, and it would not make her sense rushed. that's efficient to consult her earlier you ask her out. imagine about it. may you want some unusual woman you have not in any respect met earlier operating as a lot as you and asking you out to the films? some men may say definite, yet to a pair different men, that ought to come off as being weird and wonderful or pretend, and they are after something that you've.
2016-11-26 21:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best day would probably be Wednesday or Thursday. I would talk to her during the week first too. Like talk Monday Tuesday and Wednesday and ask her on thrusday, but just be nice about it, and don't rush. good luck!! :)
2007-02-10 06:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, I think maybe Tuesday, and start a convo going like,"Hey, I wanna see this movie do you want to come?" And I think if you just started going out for like a week, give it more time, like another week.
2007-02-10 06:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not ask her out thursday or friday because most likl ahe will already have plans so ask her tuesday or wednesdya wich ever day you look better lol
2007-02-10 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wens.
2007-02-10 06:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any if they answer YES ! Just ask!!
2007-02-10 06:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her ASAP!! Any day is great!
2007-02-10 06:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋