Have you ever been with a married man who left his wife for you? What happened? Or did you ever start dating a man with a girlfriend and just let things flow and he left her for you? Please share your stories. I just started seeing someone who is involved with another woman casually but hasn't told her about me yet.
2007-02-10 05:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by time_ready_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have not done this, but I have known others who have. If a guy (or gal for that matter) cheats on their wife/girlfriend with you, what makes you think that they won't cheat on you with someone else? It isn't just a matter of who they prefer to be with. It's also a matter of their personal character. I'd give any guy the boot who is having an affair with you while being committed to someone else. Why would you want someone whose character is so low that they would do this to someone they were committed to? Think about it. It is very selfish and cruel on the man's part, and for you to go along with it is not very nice either.
My sister's husband had an affair with a co-worker. She was also married. My sister knew about it and offered marriage counseling. Her husband refused to give up his mistress. My sister and her husband divorced. The mistress's husband beat her up. The mistress and my sister's husband married. This caused SOOOOOOOO much pain for my sister and her kids. They still have emotional baggage from that, and they are all adults now. The mistress is now "grandma" to my sister's grandchildren and these grandchildren have no idea that she has no right to be called their grandmother. My ex-brother-in-law and his wife have been married awhile, so yes, that relationship worked out. They became Christians and asked for forgiveness from my sister. They all get along great now, but my sister has not remarried, even though she has a personality that could attract any man. She is still in love with her ex-husband. Yes, it CAN work out. SHOULD it? Well, my ex-brother-in-law and his wife have brought A LOT of pain on my sister and their kids. It has been over 20 years and there is still pain. Is hurting other people worth it??
2007-02-10 06:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a married man approached me once but i didn't want to get involved. after a couple of weeks he got divorced,he changed city and job just to be near me. ever since we are together. i'm not proud of myself but sometimes things like that happen even if you don't want them to happen.
this doesn't mean that every affair ends up in getting married though...
2007-02-10 06:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by tttpsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man (or woman) leaves a spouse for you, they'll leave you for someone else. cheaters don't stop cheating. my ex b/f got divorced after we'd been seeing each other, but then dumped me for someone else. now he's married to her but called and asked would I meet him somewhere. no way!! and they might tell you they'll get a divorce, but just be stringing you along.
2007-02-10 06:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can't say that I have ever done that nor would I ever think about touching another woman's man....I am quite capable of finding my own thank you very much.
2007-02-10 06:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋