Your partner, just suddenly ends it with you by not saying anything to you, and then you find out she/he is out dating other people? I'm stunned to a point where I'm numb. Please don't get me wrong though, what we had was 'strong', but now this.
I'm lost.
2007-02-10 05:57:04 · 27 answers · asked by Yinhung 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awwwww, you are all very sweet....and so right to some extent. I should say though...I am a boy : )
2007-02-10 08:06:08 · update #1
get over it and move on fast
2007-02-10 05:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by stupido#1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say, It wasn't as strong as you like to believe it was. Some people can put up a good front and make you think they have your best at heart. If they are already dating then that was something they was doing or wanted to do all along. That person was just a seasonal person, sent into your life to teach you something. Now sit down and go back over the things that's happen and find out what it is and tell God thank you for saving you from a life of misery.
2007-02-17 14:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if your partner was a girl...or does that really matter. I guess the pain is the same. If you have the courage why don't you ask your partner what went wrong and why they dumped you. Maybe that person wasn't ready for a long term relationship and got a bit scared that you were coming on too strong. It really depends on the person you were with. I think the time for getting serious and thinking about long term stuff is when you have everything else out of your system.
2007-02-18 02:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be in shock too if it came out of the blue.
When you look back did she really seem happy?
You must have spent hours now looking for the
signs. Was she dating others while she was with you?
If so she is not worthy of your love. And one day she
might pay the cost of not being able to at least be
truthful and tell you that she has changed and does
not want to go out with you anymore.
It may have been strong - but not strong enough.
I hope you the very best - stay strong. You will get
through this.
2007-02-16 21:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both sexes handle "break-ups" differently...depending upon whether they saw the split coming or not?
But once you've asked yourself (honestly) if the flaw was in you? Your former partner? Or a combination of the 2 of you?
And have arrived at a logical answer...
You stop kicking yourself about the past!
It's impossible to erase the habits that have already occurred. Instead...you begin with a "clean slate" and hopefully...avoid making the same earlier mistakes in the future?
2007-02-18 04:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by argytunes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realy want him back find where he is dating and day and time. Ask a boy/girl to go for a date with him and you'll pay hope he says yes and go five minutes early. When your ex-partner comes kiss your date your ex-partner will get jealous and will want to go back out with you. But make sure your date has good looks.
2007-02-18 05:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear about that hun... It is horrible!!
Hostley, I wouldn't know how to act. Because I've never experienced that. But, I gues what I would do is just pack my bags and find my best friend and go travel. Go somewhere nice for a couple of weeks and clear your head....any maybe enjoy yourself a bit.
This might not be the kinda advice you wanted to hear but it might help....
Best of luck..
2007-02-10 06:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by just_D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing she has wanted to end it for a while, but didn't know quite what to say or do. She has taken a chickens way out, but don't worry.... im sure there was a reason why she left you, and as there was a reason for her leaving you I guess you should move on as she wont be coming back anytime soon.
2007-02-16 21:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Post a question on the internet and get everyone to give you advice. Once you have looked at all the answers and had a good laugh, go out and get a new girlfriend, or hang out with your mates.
2007-02-14 10:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by ELIZABETH M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry to hear that this has happened to you. Alot of people need a sence of security of being in a relationship so thats why she has started dating without telling you so you are a fallback. Move on from her. You start dating too and i'm sure you'll see a jealous reaction.
2007-02-10 06:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by vickicraig86@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,I have had someone who i thought was special just end our relasionship totally out of the blue.Ya know what dont dwell on it my friend just avoid this person,put some distance between yourselves an just do your own thing,do what ever you have to get over this,take care look after yourself!
2007-02-17 21:34:31 · answer #11 · answered by deaddrop72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋