I have known this girl for a while now and i'm starting to have feelings for her. I'm actually more or less falling in love for her. Should i tell her this or would it be better to just let things go their own ways and see what happens? I've never felt like this about a girl before so it's a little strange to me.
2007-02-10 05:47:59 · 4 answers · asked by john b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeow.......we have all been there. This is tough...especially the first time. Desire for a woman can make us all do stupid things. Without knowing the girl well it is difficult to really say, but you should play it by ear. Spend a little time with her and see how things are....be a friend first and see where it goes. Having a great friend as a girl friend is a bonus. But work on the friend part first.
2007-02-10 05:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a good friend then you should tell her. But take it slow, don't be pushy, give her time, and be prepared for either 'yes' or 'no', or no response at all. There's also the possibility that it might make things awkward between the two of you if she isn't interested, but in a way that is a test of how true your friendship is.
2007-02-10 14:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask yourself if she is acting as if she may have feelings for you, and be brutal. if it turns out yes casually ask her out, and be persistent, then let something casual turn into something serious.
2007-02-10 13:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by CHRIS S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her and ask her out... don't overwhelm her by telling her your madly in love with her...lol...that will just push her away.... be honest though....and take it day by day
2007-02-10 13:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋