So, he asked me out like almost a month ago, but so much has happened! On Super Bowl Sunday, he kissed me (my first kiss), he now holds my hand and puts his arm around me in front of our friends (we move in the exact same social circles), and two nights ago we exchanged I love yous on the phone (I really do love him! I am only truly happy when I'm near him, we talk until 2 every night on the phone, I even saved his voice on my cell I love it so much!)
Should we slow down? I think we might be moving a little fast, but I don't mind it. I just don't know what he is expecting. I am definitely
not going to give out any time soon, but I don't think thats what he wants.
On Valentines Day, he is going to my gymnastics class (yeah, I admit it, I'm showing him off). If he asked me to go to something like that of his, I would say no, but he is really enthusiastic about going.
That really surprised me. He says all he wants to do all Wednesday is hang out w/me, so he is coming over at 9 and
2007-02-10 05:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and staying all day to hang out.
Other random facts about us: He's my best friends little brother, he's 16 and I am 15, ummmm.......thats about it, lqtm.
Thank you everyone who answers! I love ya!
2007-02-10 05:36:40 · update #1
He also wants to hang out w/me all the time! How do I say I want to have a social life with other friends? I mean yeah, I LOVE hanging w/him, but I haven't seen my other friends since Wednesday!
2007-02-10 05:40:32 · update #2
first make sure that he thinks u rnt going to fast! and remember your old friends too!
2007-02-10 05:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by catch_me_if_you_can♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15, you and your boyfriend know more about infatuation than love! Granted, what you both feel may seem real to you both and in fact it may be YOUR FIRST LOVE. But that doesn't mean that the won't be more and better loves in your life! My advise, take this experience and let it play out. Slow down a bit but enjoy the ride and see were it takes you! If it works out and you are still together in 5 years, fine. If not, Cherish it for what is was. First Love! Hope this helps.
2007-02-10 13:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lonnie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Its Good That Your Happy, And He is Happy... But i Agree If you have to ask youself if your moving to fast maybe you are... slow down enjoy your time together enjoy the affection and joy you have when your with him... enjoy it its an amazing feeling and it makes your day brighter knowing your going to see him tomorrow. Slow Down Just a Bit Enjoy it girl! Its Worth it to take your time...
⥠Kristin
2007-02-10 13:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Don't get into a situation that is too much for you. Stay around other people. No one on one stuff. Find fun things to do that are wholesome: movies, board games, ice or rollerskating, sports events, etc. You sound like nice kids.
2007-02-10 13:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already made the smartest decision you could make by stating your went going to put out for him. So just have fun and see how things go when that subject is brought up, and believe me it will be brought up. Good luck and think with you hear not your heart.
2007-02-10 13:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by oldokie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think youre fine! If he starts pushing your standards (wanting things you dont want to give up) then call it off. other than that, just keep gradually moving along.
Hope you and your bf stay happy!!!
2007-02-10 13:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're asking yourself this question, then you probably are.
2007-02-10 13:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋