My boyfriend's mom does not work so all she does she worry about him. When we fight she constantly calls me and I'm so tired of her getting involved that it gets to a point I don't even pick up the phone anymore. Does anyone have any advice for me? Thanks.
2007-02-10 05:23:38 · 9 answers · asked by sweetsss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, that is a very difficult situation. I would ask your boyfriend to talk to her about it. Have him explain that he is able to handle it himself and if he ever isn't that he will come to her for advice. He needs to make it clear to her that she is making things worse - I'm sure she isn't meaning too.. and if he lets her know than she might stop doing that. Try introducing her to a new hobby - or get her a cat/dog as a gift so she can worry about that instead ;)
2007-02-10 05:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Midwest 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if he is going to be in a relationship with you then he needs to stop crying to his mommy. your not seeing her so it's not her affair to worry about. i know that sound's mean but i have been in that situation and the mom only gets his feel sorry for me version. so he looks like the victim. you need to respectfully tell him and her both separately that you and he need to work thing's out between the two of you. if your relationship is going to work. every one fights now and then it's called growing Paine's and if you don't work them out together you will not grow together but apart. hope that this helps and good luck!
2007-02-17 18:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by suzzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No advice. You're doing the right thing when you don't pick up the phone. Don't be disrespectful. You do need to talk to him.
2007-02-17 14:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it you got a mummys boy kick him to the kerb, imagine having kids with him she'll be telling you how to raise them
2007-02-10 05:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by tinkstaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age you should tell his mom that with all due respect you and (boyfriends name) really need to try to work out your own issues .
2007-02-18 01:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just tell her to back off?? you know not in a mean way or anything but just tell her or tell your bf to tell her. I think thats pretty much the only thing you can do.
take care
2007-02-10 05:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, run. If she's this bad now while you're dating it will only get worse as your relationship progresses.
2007-02-17 15:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by dolphinchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not ask ur boyfriend to talk to her about it...prbly she does this because she thinks that he doesnt mind...
2007-02-10 05:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got yourself a mama's boy. it will never change, so like it or leave it.
2007-02-17 23:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋