Well it all started when I had my 14 birthday party on Feb.7 and I invited him and a bunch of different girls. We all were getting our bathing suits on to go in the hot tub when I saw him and my BEST friend sitting together feeding each other cherries. I just ignored them for a while until all of the rest of us went outside to get in there and my best friend and him were like kissing. I ran to my room and started crying immediatly. I let everyone in except for him and her. Later after my party had ended he called me and told me that he was extremely sorry and he would like to make it up to me. I took his apology and then today I saw him and he was talking on the phone with my BFF and he was like Love you bye to her!!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-02-10 05:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by Natalia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say you are 14 and you will love again. it is hard thing to take no matter what age, and how many times it happens but let it go. you will be better for it and the sooner you let it go the sooner you will be over it.
2007-02-10 05:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by glass. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this, an episode of the O.C.? You don't say whether this boy is your boyfriend or not. First, don't ever invite a teenage boy to come hottub with a bunch of your girlfriends. Trouble. Since it's done, tell him you're moving on. He has learned you will tolerate this kind of behavior and I bet he will do it again. At the very least, break up with him for a while so he understand you aren't going to put up with this. I don't know what your "best friend" is doing, but I would put a little distance in the relationship also. Good luck. There are lots of boys out there.
2007-02-10 05:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by numinous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey....you should break up with him. You deserve more respect than what he's showing you. I know it seems like you love him and you may. BUT you deserve someone better. There are much better guys out there! To deal with the BFF...she doesnt sound like a very good friend. But she made a mistake. maybe you and her can work out your friendship depending on how long you've known her.
2007-02-10 05:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely no exception...if a guy is cheating on you, break up with him. You are better than that and deserve someone who will treat you right. Good luck
2007-02-10 05:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatechip333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him or you are together with him? does your best friend know about your love for him?
if so... im sorry to tell but leave both of them and focus on real friends and guys who have same feelings for you.... since it seems they both dont really care about you
2007-02-10 05:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by explosivegrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and concentrate a little on school... once a cheater always a cheater and he proved it to you...
2007-02-10 05:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up, dump him.
2007-02-10 05:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by ltygress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, if hes cheatin he dont love ya,
2007-02-10 05:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋