ive been seeing this guy for a month. im 15 and he is 17. he says he really loves me but he wont let me tell anyone about us because hes worried his m8s wont approve of me being younger. he now wants me 2 go to his house when his parents aren't there too "do stuff" as he puts it. shall i go and see what happens or should i end it because hes keeping me a secret?
2007-02-10 04:41:06 · 12 answers · asked by rugbyhotty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
end it becouse the sooner its over the better once hes 18 its goona be elegal for u 2 to date also this will haunt u forever hes just gonnna have sex with you and it could be dngerous!
2007-02-10 04:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by ChemE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he i keeping you a secret then there is a possibility that he is just after the booty. Never give nothing up this early. Trust me. If you are looking for that type of relationship(the one for just having fun for a short while and then breaking it off). If not, tell him to wait. If he really had feelings, he would care about your feelings and not wanna make you do something that you are not comfortable doing. You need to make sure that he is genuine and true before you "do stuff" with him because a month is not long enough their motives.
P.S. If you have been going out or 30 DAYS that dude does not love you. I would bet that he probably doesn't even know your favorite color or middle name by now.
2007-02-10 04:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Koko Butta Kream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and dump this guy. The fact that he doesn't want you to tell anyone about you seeing one another is a big red warning sign. And going to his parent's place to "do stuff" probably means only one thing, and could even be very risky if no-one knows about you two. He doesn't seem to have any respect for you.
2007-02-11 01:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Starman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT. He is not in love with you. All he wants is sex. You may be just a notch in his gunbelt. If he really loves you he would respect the fact that you do not wish to have sex. Love is something that develops over time and should not be taken for granted. You are not ready to have a child yet. Children are a big responsibility. Dump casanova if he keeps pushing you about having sex.
Don't be hurt if he dumps you. That just goes to show where you really stood with him.
2007-02-10 04:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by peterregan50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that as long as you are a big secret you dont feel comfortable going to his house at all.
2007-02-10 04:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if YOUR REALLY IN LOVE i WOULD STAY. But if just says hes in love and keeps you as a secret he may be cheating on you or just wants to have sex
2007-02-10 04:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it girl, this guy wants one thing from you and that's to get into your pants. DO NOT go to his house!! I see red flags all over this one.
2007-02-10 04:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's too scared to tell his friends that you're dating, then dump him. If he's not committed enough to even tell others about your relationship, then you shouldn't be together.
2007-02-10 04:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by joel k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your butt away from his house, cause he wants the one and only thing that is truly yours to give away.
2007-02-10 05:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by oldokie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋