a) ugly
b)boring
c) broke
d)dumb
i mean...which is the biggest turn off or deal breaker
2007-02-10 04:20:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough list...... but I say: dumb. Looks and money are superficial. Boring is fixable. Anyone with any personality at all can liven up someone else. But dumb is very unattractive. Remember Jethro from the Beverly Hillbillies? Intelligence is crucial.
2007-02-10 04:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anne Teak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man that's a cross between boring and dumb.
I guess I would have to say boring. I say that because Dumb is often a matter of perspective, anyway. Although a guy with no "common sense" might drive me absolutely insane, he might have a reason for acting that way, or he might be perfect for someone else. Or, he may be "dumb" but one of the most loving guys on the face of this earth.
Broke has never bothered me, unless the guy is broke because he's lazy, and just doesn't WANT to work. Besides, I might earn enough to keep up with my bills, but I can consider myself broke as well, since I have very little money left after each paycheck.
Now let's cover ugly a little bit. I will fully admit that a guy has to be attractive at first, if I'm just going to walk up to him out of the blue and talk with him. However, I've been known to date someone I found completely unattractive, in a physical sense. But I knew him before I dated him, and his personality and his heart definitely got me. The only reason I stopped dating him, was physical distance.
Yet let's say a man is rich, attractive, and smart, but boring. Relationships take effort. If you haven't got the energy to do SOMETHING that requires energy now and then, your relationships will most likely fail. The more energy you put in to a relationship, the happier you will be in the long run. But if you can't even get out of a chair to go on a "date" now and then with your significant other, you've already lost.
2007-02-10 12:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by ltygress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boring
2007-02-10 12:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say A and B. I say A because, you have to be at least a little bit physically attracted to a guy to get him noticed. But personality is what keeps you interested. So boring is not good either. I need a cute guy who can suprize me with anything he does. I love suprizes. Plus it raises the stakes.
Ambi
2007-02-10 12:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really think it's that easy?? If i had to pick just one, it would be boring. I can handle someone who is broke (as long as he's trying to get his act together). I can handle ugly, it's inside beauty that counts. Dumb...well, at least i can laugh at him. But boring? I need to be able to have a conversation with someone, and boring people just can't do that. I need someone who will at least entertain me. So that's my choice. Boring.
2007-02-10 12:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dumb
I like my guys with a brain.
2007-02-10 12:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not a girl but I hate boring and dumb people.
2007-02-10 12:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women would tell you that poor hygiene is the worst. So shower, cut your toenails, trim your nose hair, and floss your teeth.
2007-02-10 12:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a toss-up between b and d.
In the end, boring is the worst.
2007-02-10 12:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by mizunakat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) ugly
I see a lot of girls at my school go out with boring, broke, dumb guys, but not ugly ones.
2007-02-10 12:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋