Is it good for a 11 yr old to be dating a 16 yr old non virgin and a dad?

Question

I am so worried for her =(

Oh, btw the 11yr old is the girl lol.

OH also hes 15 not 16 srrry typo

and her parents dont know

its not me its my bff

Answer 1

That is definately not a good idea. The 15 year old is way more experienced than the 11 year old girl. If you know this childs parents approve than i guess you should stay out of it. If this is your friend you need to be the bigger person and tell her that she's making the wrong decision. Also ask this guy what he wants with an 11 year old girl? 4 years is a big difference when your 11. Be a good friend, you obviously know it's not right or else you wouldn't have said you were "worried for her". Tell her that she needs to stop seeing this guy because he's already been there and done that... she needs to walk the line with someone her age.

Answer 2

Not good at all. There is a HUGE difference in the maturity and experience between an 11 year old and a 15 year old - a perfect example of which is we're talking about a 15 year old CHILD who has already fathers a child (poor baby). Not only is he signifigantly older than she is, he is totally irresponsible or he would have used protection. This also means he could have any number of diseases AND he is going to have financial and time obligations to this child for the rest of his life. If he does not meet those requirements, he could go to jail (not the kind of person I would want to date....would you?)

If you're the mother, put your foot down and stop this right now. If you're a friend, talk to the friend and try to make her see she's risking her youth and health (she could end up pregnant, get an std). If that does no good, tell your parents or a counselor at school about your concerns.

Good luck

Answer 3

u should act quickly!!! NOW!!!!
First an 11yr old is still young to date someone, and if there was a possibility of dating someone, i guess that it should be her age or nothing!!
Second, a 15yr old and already a father???? oh my!! and what happened to the mother of the child?? He's inmature to have already a child at that age!!
Please go and warn her parents and even try to talk with her and show her how the things are in reality. Tell her that she will find time for dating when she grows up, she's still a sort of a child, dependent on her parents!! Or do u want her to become a parent at 11 years?????????????????????
Please it's for her sake!!

Answer 4

OK, here is the stupid question of the day. my opinion is this. the 16 year old is dating the 11 year old to get a head start on what he has to look forward to when his child turns that age. now the 11 year old is sneaky, lies, and wants to grow up to quickly. the 16 year old could go to jail for this and the 11 year old angel will put him there when her parents find out about it. so my answer is this. no it isn't a good thing. everyone loses. then we will listen to how unfair her parents are to her for not trusting her. lol this is a joke, right?

Answer 5

she is 11 she shouldn't be dating anyone yet.. I mean school puppy love with a classmate you go skating or whatever and it is still a Little young, but dating a 15 yr old dad come on why is he even interested in a 11 yr old . Something needs to be done about this before she gets in to big trouble , for example pregnancy or std's anything could happen.. Please you have to do something ..Is she your daughter if not talk to her mom and his mom ..Try and talk so sense into her..What about a school counseler or somebody..This needs to be taken care of immediately. If all else fails call the police before she gets hurt...

Answer 6

No. Where are her parents? How could she be dating a 16 year old single dad without them knowing about it?

If they are having sex, then I am pretty sure this is illegal and I hope the 16 year old goes to jail for it. Because an 11 year old girl is a CHILD.

Answer 7

Your kidding me right?
You are asking if this is ok?
I hope your a kid yourself and not a adult asking this question.
No way no how my daughter 11 years old would be dating
a 15 year old baby daddy. She wouldnt be dating at all
untill she was 16 or 17 then it would be in a group
not by herself. To much bad things happen in this world now a days.

Answer 8

hey my name is oscar I had that same bromblem when i was i was daiting a 16 year old but then we broke up you should do the same thing get a kid about 14 or 13 year old ill be better im 14 i learn all this thats why i no but if you really love him welll stay with him or get somebody else you will be happy with thats what i reconman you or think about it whatyou want 2 do?? im 14 my name is oscar im tall im hot and i no how to be a good man 2 be with so think about it ok its ur choise make a good joice

Answer 9

No it's no good. she will ruin her life. You must be responsible and tell her parents or someone. She does not have the capacity to make decisions for herself. Don't just stand there and watch her destroy her life. You seem like a loving and caring person. Don't stay quiet about this, help her the best way you can. You never know someday she may thank you for it. Good luck! :)

Answer 10

I hear your worry. It sounds like you are afraid that she is young and naive while he is sexually experienced and less than careful when it comes to contraception. You are possibly afraid that she might become hurt physically and emotionally.

In our culture an 11 year old is a child and for a sixteen year old to have sex with her is criminal in the United States and is sick.