Am I over reacting?

Question

Heres the deal, I've been with this guy for more then a year and we moved in together about a year ago. Recently I have noticed in the history search,links to online dating sites. I questioned him about it and he says they were pop ups when he went onto other sites and that he is not messing around on them. So today i did some digging and found that he had registered for a couple of dating sites but the thing is, I'm not sure when he did this. I do know that he has saved some search results a month before we moved in together so that tells me hes been on them while we have been together just not sure how recently hes been on.Am I being suspicious for a good reason or am I just over reacting?

Answer 1

hey...I would be a little worried...i wouldnt want to get hurt in the end, even if others do say that trust is important, you have a right to ask him and question him about this. If i were you, i would have a face to face talk about it and ask him if he has any doubts about the relationship.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

I don't think you are overeacting just careful. When you have been hurt before it is hard not to react the way you are now. I would keep looking but don't be constantly worrying over it, it could be like he said. And also try to have more trust until you see something more, attitude, phone calls etc..Most women have that gut feeling when things aren't right. Good luck to you

Answer 3

I don't think you're overreacting at all. If he doesn't fess up, then I would just keep checking out the history. If a site just pops up it usually doesn't end up on the history, but sometimes it may.

Answer 4

you're not overreacting but i dont think u should be snooping around, because it seems like u are trying to find something to b*tch about. he says he isnt doing anything, so u have to trust him, right? isnt that what a relationship is built on...TRUST?

Answer 5

care this guy