i'm friends with a guy that's 17 and i'm 15. i am so confused. i have been friends with him for almost 2 years now. this is what happens: he flirts with me (laughs at my jokes, asks me questions, gives me eye contact, listens to me, and jokes with me.) every time we talk. once i asked him for his number and told me he doesn't have a phone. once he wrote in my yearbook "you're a great friend, thanks for your help, and i hope i keep seeing you". i know he said i'm a great friend but i'm not sure if he likes me as more than a friend. help me.
2007-02-10 03:42:28 · 8 answers · asked by Dogdiggedydoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is so awesome that you have been friends with him for 2 years! i think personally let things go naturally the way they want to. don't force it to be something that it may never be. if you push it he will see it (guys aren't that dumb) and he might back away and you might lose a wonderful friendship of 2 years. just be normal around him and be his friend. he will be on to college soon and that will be hard enough on you when he leaves as a friend.
2007-02-18 02:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm, I am a boy and I'm looking at things form his perspective as the same thing happened to me many times. You say you had a great time with him, etc...Perhaps he's really shy and hasn't much experience with girls...try making the first move...no point beating around the bush, if he's worth it go for it...try to be subtile first then advance slowly...I myself am a emotionally sensitive guy and don't like to be rushed...maybe he's trying to see what you are like and it doesn't have to be the boy to make the first move (it's just plain stupid)
2007-02-10 03:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have a guy-friend. and he tells me all the time that i am his best friend, even over his guy-friends, i want it to be something more than friends, sometimes i think he gives me the wrong vibes b-cuz he tells me he likes me and is jelous of all the guys that like me but......... this valentines i gave him a "will u be my valentine" card. he got mad and now doesnt even tlk to me, something i regret, but i can live w/out him, i still like him, but if he likes you i think you should let him make the move, or he wont like you at all.
2007-02-18 03:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is sooo into you! just keep flirting back (not too much or you'll scare him) and if things keep going well, ask him out, unless of course he asks you first.
2007-02-18 02:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the only to find out is does he hang around you a lot then start flirting to him back then eventually he will ask you out dont make him jealous that will make it worse
2007-02-11 06:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Audra S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he likes you can't u tell?? He was just nervous ask him again
U should ask him to like a school dance Or something!
2007-02-18 03:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by rissagirl21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down take it one step at a time if you and he were meant to be more then friends then let it happen on its own do not rush .
2007-02-18 01:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to talk with him deeply.if you like him say you are.
2007-02-17 23:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by mia ivy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but he probl doesnt
2007-02-10 03:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋