if u dated a guy for about 6 months and u loved him and he loves you .. do you think if he went to another school like 20 min away! ud trust him? knowing hes a guy and has those guy frineds that talk ? would you be able to trust him not to cheat on you? and believ it when he says hes not?
2007-02-10 03:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I would be able to trust my guy...That's what relationships are suppose to be based on trust and if you don't have trust for that person then you really shouldn't be with him. Also if he allows his friends to talk to a girl or anything else they where never for yalls relationship in the first place.
NOTE: If you love someone the way you say you do then you should never have to question rather or not that person will cheat on you. On top of that if that person says they love you then you should trust that they love you and wont cheat on you. If you have to question it then you shouldn't be with them...that's the way I see it.
2007-02-10 03:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by lady_tee_76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becca,
You asked a kinda difficult question.
Maybe your relationship is too early to tell if there is trust, but, believe me, you will know eventually, this I can tell you!
See, if your guy loves you and he's mature, it won't matter if his friends "talk" because when a couple "clicks", a long distance doesn't matter, because when you're in each others "hearts" to begin with, real love can withstand anything!
So, when your BF is at this School, keep an open mind so you won't set yourself to get hurt,and try not to worry about the trust "issue"! Concentrate on your love for each other and stay positive, and also, when you keep this in mind, your time together will help your love grow even more! Just don't give doubts a chance just because he is in a School a bit away from you!
The relationship sounds on the right track! relax a little.
2007-02-10 11:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the girl who said you aren't really in love. Trust is a part of loving someone. If you are saying that he loves you then you should believe that he loves you enough not to cheat. If you are worried about it then you need to get over it and trust him or move on. Guys aren't as bad as girls. You should't be worried about him, but the girls.
2007-02-10 11:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if you trust him first. if you trusted him before this happend than yeah but be cautious about it. don't get over worried about it if you tend to worry.guys don't like alot of questions all the time and they definatly don't like to be asked if they are cheating. ask him once in a wile not every day or every week just a wile like once every 2 weeks or 3 weeks. the thing is you need to do what you think is right.
2007-02-10 11:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that your doubting him proves that you don't fully trust him. You are not in love my dear.
2007-02-10 11:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy and his history, and warn him that you have people there keeping hm in check...and actually have people there keeping him in check
2007-02-10 11:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋