Last October while I was working in Paris on assigment,I was contacted by a girl who told me she had been sleeping wit h my fiance and that she didn't know he was in a relationship.....of course he denied it and said she was a girl from his neighbourhood who was stalking him.I was horrible to her, not only did I call he a liar and mental and other really nasty things...I also attacked her physical appearance, I called her fat and ugly and.......Now he has cheated again except this time I know it's for sure and I feel guilty for the awful things I said to that girl I don't know her and have never met her and probably never will, but I do have her contact info.Should I call her and apologise to her for the things I said....
I know she slept with my fiance,but she says she didn't know and she did try to warn me.....
2007-02-10 03:27:32 · 24 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has been since dropped kick to the curb...
2007-02-10 03:37:46 · update #1
When we get interesting news that is not so appealing like a girl calling us because they have put up the truth about sleeping with our men, then we will get curious and think could this be or why? At least she did tell you when she did because she wanted you to know she was not aware he was in a serious relationship, Being mad at him for sure, If you want to call her and let her know you are sorry for the things you said to her and about her then do it only because you want to be on the right terms and give her some assurance that you did not mean to do it , just because the news shocked you and were angry and you say things you don't mean when you are angry. What you do with your fiance is totally up to you but make sure you are making the right decision.
2007-02-10 03:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, just leave it be. Chalk it up to your fiance is an a#$hole and move on. You had the natural response to the call, it's human nature to not want to believe the worst in people we love. I wouldn't give it a second thought, the first girl he screwed around with probably hasn't either. The second and third AND fourth probably won't either. You deserve better.....now go get 'em.
2007-02-10 11:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it be for now. You are too hurt right now and it may make things worse you and her. In time you can try to reach out. But if she is still angry she will lash out at you and make the pain hurt more. Also are you sure she was warning you or rubbing it in?
It kills me to know you are in so much pain and I wish I could take it all away.
2007-02-10 12:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Greyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a way to contact her to tell her you are sorry call he and do just that AND!! thank her for trying to save you more grief that the unfaithful fiance would give you more of. Let her know you appreciare what she tried to do for you
2007-02-10 11:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her one time and tell her that now you know she was not telling lies and you are sorry what you said to her. She will be glad to hear that you now know the truth more than the fact you don't think she is fat and ugly.
2007-02-10 11:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would contact her. If you only have her phone number, call her. But if you have her email address, I think it would be better to email, since that way is a little less personal and you still would be getting your point across.
2007-02-10 11:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by rover07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that guilty about the whole situation then, yes, call her. I give you props for being a woman and wanting to apologize.
2007-02-10 11:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by OU 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should call her up and say sorry to her...If you really think about it she was looking out for you and told you, that's something she didn't have to do..That was probably something she never wanted to do...
Good luck, do whats right...
2007-02-10 12:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by lady_tee_76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should call her...immediately.Your fiance isn't worth of u...I can understand your nerves but try next time to be open minded and break up with your fiance because he'll be a terrible husband...
2007-02-10 11:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Theodore_27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is the right think to do, and i like you already because there are not too many models that have a nice heart, i think it's honest and takes courage calling back a person and apologize. wow, you are one of a kind. !!
2007-02-10 13:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋