i'm 13..i feel so ugly with my acne *please Help*?

Question

im a 13 year old girl and alothough i understand that it's normal to be getting acne at this age it's still all i think about. there isn't an hour that goes by without me wishing i had clear smooth skin or how much happier i would be with it. i don't know what to do, i already drink plenty of water, take vitamans, eat vegtables, wash my face twice a day... i just don't know. i'm scared if i go to a dermatoligist the products they'll give me will make my skin worse. the reason my acne depresses me so much is not only do i have it on my face, it's also on my neck, chest, shoulders and some on my arms (not on my back though) this sounds stupid..but i always feel so ugly with it, i can't wear any clothes i like because i have to work around my acne, and even when i shower i still feel gross. i wear bare minerals makeup on my face but i still have breakouts. i feel like i'm never going to get a boyfriend, and i feel so ugly around my friends with perfect skin. please help, ill do anything=(

Answer 1

Hi Sam


Here are some real answers on skin conditions. Remedies at the bottom. Cleansing the body of toxins is the key. Especially a colon cleanse! Educate yourself on detoxifying the blood.

Judyth Reichenberg-Ullman N.D. - "What is your skin trying to tell you? Often the skin is a metaphor for deeper issues and a way for your body to send up a red flag to warn you that all is not well underneath. When our skin is unhealthy it is usually a reflection of the internal state of our bodies, and is often a sign of poor elimination of toxins and waste products. Most of us are embarrassed by skin problems such as rashes, rosacea, boils or acne, especially in places where others can see our imperfections. The skin is the body's first line of defense against the environment. It has to deal with the effects of weather, sun , cold, heat, dryness, humidity, scrapes, bumps, soaps, detergents, chemicals, perspiration and dirt of all kinds. It is a wonder that our skin stays healthy most of the time! We can help our skin deal with this onslaught by optimizing our general health and by protecting our skin from harsh environmental exposure. Western medicine generally treats skin eruptions with either antibiotics, cortisone, or antifungal preparations. These medicines may alleviate the skin problem temporarily, or occasionally for good, but do not address the source of the problem. Putting a lid on skin symptoms without getting to the root of the imbalance may even result in suppression, that means the imbalance may be driven deeper causing more serious health problems later without ever strengthening the underlying vital force of the person. Fortunately, naturopathic medicine offers a wide vareity of effective treatments for skin problems."

Judyth Reichenberg-Ullman N.D. - "Your skin is a reflection of how well your body is eliminating the toxins that build up on a daily basis. Chronic skin conditions such as acne, eczema and psoriasis stem from a combination of genetic factors, immune stress, dietary deficiencies or sensitivities, and the accumulation of toxins in the body. For our skin to be radiant and clear, it is very important that the other organs of elimination (kidneys, liver, lungs, and colon) are cleansing the body effectively. If not, the skin will be overtaxed, pores will become clogged, and eruptions of one sort or another will result. Here are a number of steps you can take to improve your body's overall elimination wtih specific emphasis on your skin."

Detoxification is a normal body process of eliminating or neutralizing toxins through the colon, liver, kidneys, lungs, lymph and skin. Fasting is the world's most ancient and natural healing mechanism. Fasting triggers a truly wondrous cleansing process that reaches right down to each and every cell and tissue in the body.

Learn more about Therapeutic Fasting and Detoxification - Internal Cleansing

Natural Cures

1. Fruits and Vegetables for Acne: Carrot & spinach, celery & watercress, grapefruit juices are all useful to combat acne.

2. Unwholesome Foods: Acne, a prevalent problem among teen-aged boys would not be possible in our society if our foods were wholesome. A most sad and disgusting sight is the pus-filled pimples due to inner toxicity --- wastes trying desperately to escape through the face. This condition often turns a gentle face in the blossom of youth into a waste dump of pimples, pus and subsequent pock marks which can be prevented. The tons of acne medications and prescriptions sold annually act only on the effect of the harmful food, and not the cause of the disease, malnutrition. The traditional teenage meal, a grease burger, french fries and a milk shake or cola simply does not provide enough nourishment for anyone, let alone a boy going through puberty to adulthood. Our highly processed foods are devoid of hormones found in fresh fruits, vegetables, grains, nuts and seeds. Must do a colon cleanse to rid of all the toxins in the body, which eventually get into the blood and cause acne and all other diseases.

3. Cabbage: Apply a lotion of freshly prepared cabbage juice preceded, if desired, by the application of leaves. The eating of cabbage leaves or juice is also helpful.

4. Lemon Juice: Skin problems such as acne... will often respond to a treatment of lemon juice. For blackheads rub lemon juice over them each night.

5. Black Walnut: Externally, Black Walnut is nearly a miracle worker in cases of ...acne, dandruff, boils, itch, shingles, ringworm--we could go on, but you can see that you can use Black Walnut whenever a skin disorder appears! The tincture is an excellent first-aid remedy for wounds.

Best of health to you

Answer 2

Hey girl, I know this was years ago so I'm not sure why I'm commenting.. But I'm 13 right now. I cry a lot because my acne. I have a BUNCH of little bumps on my face and RED acne on the sides of my face. I am supper embarrassed. I have oily skin to.. But when I wash twice a day it's to dry :\ all my friends have PERFECT skin. Legit. And I feel like they are prettier because of there clear faces :(

Answer 3

I had a brother like that. I recommend scrubbing your face three or four times a day. every chance you get. even if no soap is available. And each night before bed put some acne cream on your face. And each morning wash it off and put after shave lotion on it. But always remember people see your personality much more than your face. When I was in school I remember a girl with a very bad case of the same thing. And yet she was the most popular girl in school. And she wound up being prom queen. Go figure.

Answer 4

Your doing the right thing, drinking plenty of water- keeping your face clean , that's all you can do just be patient it will clear up. Look at it like this Its good to get it now and let it run it's course then for it to flair up when you start high school , you are not ugly don't ever feel that away.

Answer 5

I feel the exact same way. But I am only 9 and I always feel ugly around other people, too. My friends don't even help me. Everyone in my class I think that they think I am ugly. They give me a look that looks like they are thinking, "She is so ugly." I cried in my math class once and people thought I had something in my eye. it's hard to think I really have friends at all. Sorry if I didn't answer your question but I just had to let my feelings out. : (

Answer 6

Acne is caused by the staph bacteria so ask you mother to make an appointment with the doctor to see about getting on antibiotic therapy to get your acne under control. Also while you acne is at it's worst do not use any kind of makeup at all except maybe eye shadow and lip gloss. You want to keep make up off your face. See your doc and get antibiotics to get this under control.

Answer 7

While it took little less than two months for me to really see a difference, my acne, blackheads and whole lot of other skin problems I had such as eczema had completely cleared! It was totally amazing...

Get Rid Of Acne Permanently?

Answer 8

Make an appointment to see a dermatologist. They may have something better to help you than you think. There are topical lotions to try and also antibiotics to help control the bacteria.

Go to Acne.org and read up on all the suggestions they have as well.

Answer 9

hi try tht:
dun eat lots of chocolat nor fat containing food e.g. chips
wash ur face with half a lemon once every 2 days
try anti acne lotions or soap daily but notice ur face may get dry.. but it will b temporary
never apply anti-drying lotions tht make skin soft..
never play with ur hands
change ur pillow cover once every 2 days..
whenever u pass by the bathroom, wash ur face..
hope tht helps......

Answer 10

proactiv! it works for real cause i use it to keep my face clear and clean. and also wash ur face daily i would say about twice a day. morning and night. and dont wear so much powder on r face. i usually use only eyeliner and mascara. cause when u use powder make-up it gets all in ur pores and breaks u out more =/ so thats wat i suggest =]